So I was thinking about why I like them heavy ( actually I wasn’t, its 11:30, I’m just home from the pub and am trying to avoid working ) and …
Cock-rings
I like chunky cockrings because they feel like someones hand gripping. An extra grip.
The added weight of the big heavy ones, plus the extra blood, make me feel big. Or bigger than I like to tell myself I am. Or lets say as big as I was in my youth. In my imagination, in my youth. Anyway that sensation of having something big and heavy hanging between you legs which most of us aren’t that familiar with, is nice.
Ball-stretchers
The weight is the whole point of the big steel ones, and they make you swing more. Its just another nice, added sensation. Unless its too heavy. Feeling your tubes being tugged can kill the mood.
I do have some light silicone ones which I like for the compression rather than weight.
Butt-plugs
I like the pull of the weight and the fill of large ones ( within reason ), but practically, once lubed up, I have difficulty keeping them in. I find the metal ones more uncomfortable but useful for e-stim. Silicone are preferred if I’m moving around alot. Less chance of them cracking a floor tile. But the best I’ve used for p-lay is the simple Booty Buddy. Just seems to hit exactly the right spot. No weight to it and it doesn’t stay in, butt ..
I recently got over my fear of solid metal rings ( I’ve got magnetic and screwed ball stretchers and a ring but they always feel insecure ) and bought one that luckily is a perfect fit.
Love it.
Wish it was a little beefier and heavy but the circumference is just right. Little pressure when I’m soft but solid fit once I’m up.
Njoy Pure Wand.
What a toy!
Heavy, basic, and so easy to clean.
Works on my fiancée for her G-spot and myself on my prostate. It seems to find the spot for both of us every time very easily.
You get the choice of the large end or the small end.
I’ve not managed to stretch to the large end just yet but I’m hoping to soon because I love to ride it.
Definitely my favourite non vibrating toy.
I like the idea of a weighted ring although I’ve always been hesitant to try one with no give in it so only ever tried rubber. Are they easy to get off when you’re done? Are they easy to put on even if you are already of a reasonable size? Any recommendations?
If I’m hard or even semi I couldn’t get it on. I have to be completely soft, then go one ball, pull my scrotum through, then the next, then my cock. Its more of a process than with silicone. Once you’ve finished and soft again it comes off quite easily. I was always scared I’d not be able to get it off.
I wouldn’t leave it on for too long though as it seems to reduce the blood flow more than silicone.
I got one with an internal diameter of 47mm, which is 1mm tighter than this
I have the same ring as @I_ll_try_anything has from the LH store. It is relatively easy to take off once you are a little softer and because it is metal a little lube should really help. I find the metal ones easier to take off than the silicone ones which I find too restrictive and pinching. Unlike @I_ll_try_anything I find the metal ones restrict my blood flow less than silicone ones and because they are rigid can be worn longer if you are not hard.