For those who are in a longer relationship, who does most of your toy purchases? Also if you go away who usually packs the toys for your getaway?
For us it is me and me. Early in our relationship she purchased a couple of toys but for years now it has been me. She gets excited when I surprise her with a new toy. When we go away I pack them and when we get into it she will ask if I packed any. She enjoys them for sure.
Never minded but lately I have to admit it is starting to bother me some. I guess it’s time to say something
I do the purchasing now[1]. But it’s not always been that way. My OH is the reason we started our exploration into sex-toys (I remember, he bought me a wand). And we mutually agree on which toys we want to take and I then do the packing
Unless he spots something for me or I drop hints ↩︎
Yeah to be honest it’s always me looking for new toys and buying them. I also wish she would look more for toys and at night pick some toys out of the box. In general at the moment I wish she was a lot more interested as it’s always me starting the playing and coming up with ideas.
Me generally ,we like to choose a few together when looking on line then I order without him so it’s a surprise when they turn up.i tell him I’ve ordered but not what one.he likes the not knowing as it adds to the excitement of what’s turning up.that said on a few occasions he has surprised me with some things.thanks god for discreet packaging
What bothers you? Is it the almost systematic use of fingersticks?Do you know how to say why it bothers you?
You’re right, communication is the foundation of everything in a relationship.
Otherwise, to answer the question, it’s still me (male).Otherwise, to answer the question, it was always me (a man) who bought the sex toys. But she’s always the one who packs them in her suitcase!
I’m usually the one buying them, though we do occasionally browse together and she always seems to find something she gets excited about. I’m also the one who packs them when we go away. She did buy us a tool bag that has several compartments that perfectly fit our favorites, though, so now I just grab that and toss it in the suitcase.
Its mainly me that buys the toys, although hubby bought me some for christmas but i did make a list of the ones i would like to try. I buy things for him but he is fussy so i have to check with him first.
Packing our toys for our weekends away is normally him but he does check with me on what i want to take so its a joint effort.
I should add that I’m the one who cleans them too.
I really don’t mind buying them, packing them or even cleaning them because I know how much she enjoys them and I like using them on her. However, like cooking dinner, even if you’re a chef, it’s nice for someone to cook the dinner for you once in awhile. I’ll mention it to her the next time we travel.
I am the only one who has bought toys. She shows little interest in them, and I can’t imagine her looking for them or buying them . As far as I know she does not use the nice and expensive silicone vibrator I gifted her .
