woman who use strap on's do they.....?

HAHA, what's that then?

And yes she does know. I don't want to say bad things about her cus I love her to pieces and we are best friends as well, but we aren't matched up sexually. She doesn't mind my anal play or anything else between us two, as long as it doesn't extend to bondage (which I would try!) but she says no to most other stuff, i.e. in the car, semi public places etc.

sexytime wrote:

HAHA, what's that then?

And yes she does know. I don't want to say bad things about her cus I love her to pieces and we are best friends as well, but we aren't matched up sexually. She doesn't mind my anal play or anything else between us two, as long as it doesn't extend to bondage (which I would try!) but she says no to most other stuff, i.e. in the car, semi public places etc.

Ah just stuff like goin to swingers clubs/parties, group sex...never though he'd agree to it!

Ah she's missin out, we love a bit of bondage! I don't blame her about car/public places, does nothing for me either.

Ah well....maybe one day we will see you there.lol.

BTW, apologies for going 'slightly' off topic and making this all about me.

LOL ST dont be daft not making it all about you besides we'r all friends here all here to chat n listen matey ;-)

well i have never asked the question mihg t do just for a laugh

I would love to use a strap on on my OH, he would think i was mad if i suggested it because he is not in to bum fun but i don't think i would like to see him with another man. I like gay porn but it's another thing when it's my OH x

i would just be happy for my oh to give into me asking..and to get a strap on for her to use on me..even just for 1 night

I very much enjoy wearing a strap on and using it on my OH.

I like having the power of control his pleasure - but as SlipperyWhenWet said "His ass is mine & mine alone!". It sounds like I am being really possessive but he's mine and I wouldn't want anyone touching him in that way!


SexiLexi wrote:

I very much enjoy wearing a strap on and using it on my OH.

I like having the power of control his pleasure - but as SlipperyWhenWet said "His ass is mine & mine alone!". It sounds like I am being really possessive but he's mine and I wouldn't want anyone touching him in that way!


Yeah i must say my oh say's this too it amkes my nkees feel lke jelly mmmm

SexiLexi wrote:

I very much enjoy wearing a strap on and using it on my OH.

I like having the power of control his pleasure - but as SlipperyWhenWet said "His ass is mine & mine alone!". It sounds like I am being really possessive but he's mine and I wouldn't want anyone touching him in that way!


Glad to hear it babe!

I don't think it's really possesive - it's just a relationship thing - I think the thought of another person having such intimacy with someone you love, whether it's a straight, bi, gay or whatever situation, is unpleasant for most. Just the way it is I suppose - if it wasn't there'd be a swingers club on every high-street!

I as a straight male fantasized about being taken by my missus for quite some time and when we finally got around to it I wouldn't settle for anything other than a non penis like dong both in look and colour.. love having her take control and give me a good seeing to, the feeling is awesome but would not have a male anywhere near me and also know that she feels strongly about this aswell!