I love being pegged but OH is not as keen as me. We do it about once a month. I think she enjoys it more than she makes out. She sometimes says ‘do you want me to make you come’ I say ‘peg me’ she says ‘go get ready’ . I would love it if she was more dominant and said ‘go get ready, I wanna f**k you’ maybe in time. I don’t feel submissive. But after we have done it I do feel a lot closer to her and more lovey dovey. Not sure if that’s a common trait. ![]()
I try to communicate, but when I ask what she wants , I just get "I don’t know "
We discuss some sex , but she doesn’t like talking about it .
Can you talk about why she doesn’t like to discuss it? You’re already mashing your genitals together, seeing each other naked every day. Not much is off the table by this point.
You are asking her the wrong question. If you want some anal play on yourself leading to pegging you need to ask her how she feels about you trying a butt plug.
I will have to meet one of these sexy ladies.
My woman and I have not had genuinely proper talk in 6 months. A weird reason. I’m close to breaking point.
Is pegging your men something that you ladies talk about? Is it common?
What size did does your hubby like you to use on him?
The dilemma in the starter pegging kit is 5.5". There is a 7" from ROMP. I am honestly thinking about getting it.
What is your harness and set-up like?
No wonder your husband would be in heaven if 3-5 times a week. Must be so good with a partner.
@Hottbronco76 the romp dildo 7 inch is a lovely dildo but I recommend using with pegging pants as comfortable over a harness
My husband generally recommends the dildos to use and I recommend start small and work up to bigger
@batjamboree … given your shared love for pegging, what are your thoughts on double ended dildos for the task? It came to my attention recently that one could be used in a compatible harness to enhance the female’s pleasure (something that is a priority with me for Sexterminatrix) and connect with your man more physically than with just the harness/briefs..? I’m wondering if that will give her the simulation that is usually lacking in the pegging department without the use of bullets etc. (I’ve also heard that kegal balls work wonders for pegging pleasure!) ![]()
@Sexterminator - as do double ended dildo would not be for me but we do use a https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/strapless-strap-ons/p/strap-on-me-licking-remote-control-vibrating-strapless-strap-on/a48456g86290.html
This allows pleasure for me but as it’s firmly placed inside it allows full control over the dildo aspect for him
@batjamboree yes, Sexterminatrix has one very similar to that (but from another manufacturer) with the licking and air pulsing which she absolutely loves, plus all the remote control vibrating goodness you would reasonably expect. My thought was whether a double ended dildo would work well in a traditional harness or even pegging briefs for a dual connection, so to speak. I’m guessing something at least 17 inches long so that both partners can enjoy at least 6 inches, allowing for the length between a woman’s natural … er, “insertion point*”* and the base-ring/exit point for their partner in that particular configuration. The point is, of course, to provide the most visceral interpretation of penis ownership without the unwanted permanency of operations (I love her just as she is, balls and all haha!!) ![]()