So yesterday morning i was working in a flat that has a window at the back of the building that you can climb out onto a flat roof, its in a built up area so its wuite over looked and facing alot of other flats. I was out there yesterday having a tea break when a man appers in the window behind in the buff, he noticed me then drew his curtain. This morning however i was out having a quick cuppa before i got started and he appears again this time sporting a semi and just stands there and smiles st me, i ssmilex bsckk then went in thinking nothing of it. The confusing part was when i told mywife what had happened kmowing im not gay/bi she asked if i liked what i saw, i said i sisnt think of it in that way im not curious she said im sure you can appreciate an attractive man without wanting to do anything. Am i strange for thinking that id have to be slighlty curious to find it attractive. Its got me thinking now this morning
Not at all, think we can all appreciate a good looking member of the same gender without it being sexual or bi.
There’s always this suggestion that all women are bi and men mostly straight … and I do wonder whether a lot of that is purely down to socialisation…
I consider myself straight … wouldn’t want a romantic relationship with a man… very much thinking the naughty thoughts about women … but … I do love to see a nice cock in porn… and I do have fantasies about threesomes with my wife and other men… think it’s all a spectrum and all good fun and we are probably socialised to be averse to it
Dont get me wrong i have no issue whatsoever seeing naked men im a naturist at heart so love being naked and others being naked. It just got me thinking when she asked if i found it attractive and i could only answer thst iv never looked at it in that way its just a naked man lol
So it’s more of a yes to seeing him as attractive and a no to feeling aroused by it maybe?
We all find different things attractive and many can appreciate other things as well but it don’t necessarily make us this, that or other
For me I’d have been most intrigued to seen this haha
As i say having never given it a thought i didnt see it either way, i think the only time i have ever really taken notice of a man wad years ago in a public swimming pool went to the male changing afterwards to shower and dress and whislt in the sshower a you guy waalked in looking likke he made horses jelous in his spare time there wad me mr average there suddenly looking very small in comparison,couldnt help but appreciate that thi ng hitting his knees
We move from the city to the country in just over a week. I will miss having neighbors… or will I?
Although heterosexual I still get turned on by male masturbation and orgasm. I would never want any sort of relationship apart from perhaps a mutual masturbation session