That article is awful…… I’m not a fan of Tracey Cox anyway but if you aren’t in the mood for sex, don’t have sex.
It reminds me of the sort of articles you’d get in the 90s. Not really up for sex? Well just pretend you are a porn star, fake the hell out of wanting and enjoying it, don’t worry your pretty little head about consent, and your man will be super happy!!!
Oh wow! There’s so much I hate about that article, I couldn’t even read to the end! It sounds like something written for women in the 50s. So sexist and degrading. Nothing mentioned (in the half that I read) about intimacy, pleasure for the vulva owner or even love and romance. If you’re not in the mood for sex, don’t have sex! Have a cuddle or a massage, just don’t feel you have to have sex and put up with it for the shortest possible time!
Yeah I’m not a fan of that article. I get that you need to make an effort but if I don’t want to have sex I’m not having sex. Thats it. I’m not pulling out a move to get it over with in 3 mins. Thats not the kind of sex I ever want to have and if anyone did any of those suggestions with me, I’d be hurt.
If you’re not in the mood for sex, have intimacy time instead.
You, subservient woman, should please your man with sex when he wants it. Here’s how to make to ordeal over faster.
Really terrible.
I understand we all do things for our partners we don’t necessarily want at the time, i have even forced myself to have sex with my wife when i was exhausted and would have rather slept… we all compromise, but these tips, in the way they are presented, are pretty horrible.
Some of the stuff mentioned in this article, I’d utterly love if my other half done that too me, but if I thought for one second it was just to get it over with, like she’s ticking another daily chore off the list…… I would be absolutely devastated.
Yeah men desire to feel wanted too, but surely not like this.
I love it when sex lasts as long as possible what a strange article!
On a serious note though I hate how society seems to assume that consent only applies to vulva havers!
The whole grabbing him as soon as he walks in. What if he’s not in the mood? What if he just had a really bad day and just needs someone to talk to?
Consent goes both ways and if it’s wrong to do to a vulva haver then it’s wrong to do on a penis haver too!
Oh god, everything about that article is wrong!
I’d actually feel pretty upset if I knew that a partner was doing all those things just so the whole deed could be done and dusted as quickly as possible