1st anal experience of a hetero male

As my first post here I thought I might share my experience this weekend of my first anal experience. (Well that’s if you don’t count the day in hospital that a very large-fingered nurse under doctors orders inserted a suppository pain killer inside me using a very non-lubricated latex surgical glove when I had a kidney stone … she was there for a very fast time not a good time :joy: she apologised for the discomfort and then went on her way…she didn’t even come back to visit either…not a very pleasurable experience in the least :joy:).

This weekend gone the OH and myself decided to leave the kids at home, travel a few hours up the coast and have a dirty weekend away at a hotel with the added bonus of having in our possession a newly delivered Lovehoney Wild Weekend mega couples toy kit which arrived in the mail the day previous ordered by the OH (it contains various vibrators, penis stroker, cock rings, anal beads and plug).

As a 100% heterosexual male, anal play has never really been much of a thought in my mind (maybe joining this forum corrupted me :joy:). I’ve always enjoyed a nice firm massage of the perenium from the OH and recently she has used a vibrating egg externally on my anus a couple times while stroking me which I’ve found incredibly pleasurable and pretty much turns me to jelly instantly :joy: So when she suggested I should try the butt plug from the kit I thought yes, yes I should, how bad can it be?

After an afternoon of testing out some of the vibrating toys on the other half and then testing the strength of the hotel room chipboard desk (which incidentally is not very strong and chipboard table legs don’t provide a whole heap of sturdiness).
Table fixed we headed out for a bit of dinner and a drink or 2 before heading back to our hotel room…my time had come.
With a small amount of trepidation unsure of what sort of feelings to expect in my backside I lay on my back on the bed with my legs spread and a pillow under my bum and tried to relax my muscles while she got everything lubed up. I felt the tapered tip go in until I could feel the thickest part of the plug beginning to stretch me. I was thinking wow that was actually pretty easy, until I reached my hand around and realised it had barely started. She paused and held it there while she got me hard and stroked me for a while then asked if I wanted her to push it in further, I didn’t come this far for nothing so of course I said yes and from there it was all a bit of a blur the feeling of fullness as she pushed it all the way in was incredible, something I’ve never experienced, all I could think was holy f&$@@)$ shit (not sure what I actually said though :thinking::joy:). Still I had to have another check with my own hand to be sure it was all the way in and from there I gave in to the sensation. In reality I had no choice as the feelings totally overtook me. I could feel her moving the plug around pushing and tugging on it which drove me insane. She continued vigorously working my penis with her other hand and I am pretty sure her mouth and tongue were also involved but by this stage my eyes were rolling, my hips and butt were involuntarily thrusting like a turkish belly dancer and moaning uncontrollably. She pulled the plug in an out a few times which sent me over the edge, I have no idea if I lasted 1 minute or 10 minutes from there but the pleasure built and built until I exploded with the most powerful orgasm I’ve ever experienced. All I could really do then was lay there totally spent wondering wtf that was :joy: who would have known there were that many pleasurable nerve endings there until you start manipulating and stretching them…. and I haven’t even touched my prostate….
For the record I’m 49 years old and wondering why I’ve waited so long for that experience. I would definitely recommend it :joy:

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Hi @lowndsey :wave:
Welcome to the forum and congratulations on your new found pleasure!

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Welcome @lowndsey :blush: glad you enjoyed experimenting :tada:

The Turkish belly dancer bit of your description did make me giggle!

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Welcome to the forum @lowndsey and great story - welcome to the big wide world of anal pleasure as well!

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Welcome @lowndsey great to hear about your experimenting! :slightly_smiling_face:

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Wow that sounds amazing
I’m 60 ish straight guy
Some of the most mind blowing orgasms I’ve had have been with butt plugs in when I’m cam wankin with my buddies
Welcome to the bum fun lol

Welcome to the club, you’ll never go back. Been well over a decade for me and my wife. Wife now pegs me on a consistent basis and even if she isn’t pegging me there is some kind of anal play for me during sex. It’s addicting man. Orgasms are out of this world.

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Welcome to the joys of anal play! Now you know why so many men get converted to it :sweat_smile:

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Hi @lowndsey welcome to the forum and thanks for your story. Have been wondering about anal for the Mrs and I. She’s not a big fan at the moment but thinking at the right time and with discussion maybe adding it to our repertoire. Been checking out toys for us both to use and reading reviews but it was good to read a first hand account from a first time user. Do you use them on her ? If so wonder what her reactions are ? Would love it to be a mutual part of our play. Thanks again !

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Gday, great intro.

Greetings and Welcome @lowndsey :sunglasses:

that was quite an intro, thank you for sharing it.

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@Rode_A No my OH doesn’t really have any interest in it on herself… oh well her loss :joy:

Thanks for the welcome everyone

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Hello & Welcome. :wave: Thanks for sharing yours amazing new experience. Hopefully the start of a new journey of discovery.

Hi @lowndsey , that’s a shame. Oh well, enjoy your journey. Hopefully she may change her mind one day after seeing the pleasure you get. As for our journey that may take a while but you never know what lies ahead of us. Cheers.

@lowndsey . Hello and welcome to the forums , great introduction . I was about 45 when my wife surprised me while 69ing . Found out she had wanted to play in my back door for years . We bought a top shelf pegging harness with two ( too large ) plugs . Took a lot of lube and was a bit uncomfortable but nice . I have been enjoying anal fun for over 20 years and crave it often . I also get to bucking and gyrating like a wild animal . I ride dildos while standing while they are suction mounted to a vertical surface . Often I milk my prostrate while " Riding the Storm out " . For me the experience is elevated while wearing lace stockings and garter . Enjoy the ride .

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@Rode_A @lowndsey best course is to keep exploring for yourself and not put any pressure on. You know your relationship and hopefully can find the balance, but there’s a way to occasionally pop the “are you curious/interested/open to trying it?” question without it being nagging or pressuring, especially as you continue your exploration. One approach includes inviting her alongside if you’re shopping for new toys to try yourself - gives the right space to pose the question like “anything you think looks interesting?” Great method for continuing the buy-in for further exploration - you may find yourself moving from a plug to a prostate massager to full pegging if she’s open to that with you.

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