The wife and I love abit of anal play. She loves to use medium sized toys on me ( I like the beaded glass ones the best). Now she is liking the Idea of using a strap on!!!
So the questions I have are:
1.Whats a good buy for a 1st timer?
2. Can we get a beaded Attachment?
3. Does her size matter (She is 5ft tall size 10)
4. Whats the best postion to try?
We would like to order one very soon
we would also love to hear about your experiences (Good or Bad)
Thanks
Mr & Mrs Superman
I used to use glass toys on hubby, when we progressed to a strap on we bought the beginners one and we weren't happy at all as it was tiny.
So we got this one
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30701
The harness is fully adjustable so no worries about it fitting, it even fits on hubby. You can technically use any strap on dildo with it as it has several different o ring sizes so I don't see why you can't get a beaded one.
I like to take hubby doggy style, gives me more control and I find its a lot comfier for me plus he can control the depth and speed at first
Have fun ;)
I would have to agree with the harness jessicaleon11. I did get the beginners one at first and found it to be too small and this was a good size and is pleasurable for both of us.
Yep another vote for the link provided above. I would probably answer all your questions just as JessicaLeon11 has too.
I don't think you'd be disappointed with that product at all :)
Try the basix 7" slim dildo its tapered so easy to use and comfortable we used it with love honey beginners harness that comes with a 5" dildo and it fitted in there well and the harness is easy to fit and great best one we got.
Hi Mr & Mrs Superman
I would say that the http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30701 is a great starting set and the toy is great .
i can also say that http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32783 is also a great item to have my wife loves this item as she finds a harness digs in sometimes and this is like wearing a pair of knikers
this item is beaded http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29780
if you are trying this for the first time i would say try the position that you are both on your side and she is behind you that way she can bead you over forwards or backwards and you both do not have to be strong to lift the other and support them .
we also start with this position and then move on to other ones later with my wife on top or myself which one we wish to do .
Just take it easy and try to find the position that you both find the best ,talking is the key find out what you both wish to happen and to find out what works for you both
Have fun
Thanks for all your posts you have been really helpful!
I gona get one and surprise the other half I think!
We have never played with me in doggy b4 ( Im normally on my back with leds up playing with myself while she sits infornt on me) so I have no clue how that will work?
I cant decide between
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30701
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16971
I do own this one but I really would go for the lovehoney one.
I have purchased the Vac Loc system that allows you to interchange dildos. I also upgraded and bought a different harness as we. We have a couple of the dildos including the rather large one but the one that I am posting here is really nice. It's a good eight inch so you can tell you are being penetrated. I really like the feel of the material as well. It is soft and pliable but able to retain rigidity when applied to the harness.
As for positions taking you from behind whether on your knees or stood is good and allows easy penetration, especially if your wife puts high heels on as it does make my wife just that bit taller and lets her enter me easily. If you are on your back then we have found that you need to raise your butt up away from the bed and to be supported. This allows easier entry as the harness does sit slightly higher in terms of body position than a penis.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12135
We have the one your after and its good but we also have the matrix adjustable vibrating strapless strap on which we prefer now as no fiddly straps and the bonus vibrations 😀
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18043
I can recomend this it's got 19 reviews all 5 star one of the reviews is ours. As for the dildo personally we love the silicone ones there worth the extra money and will remain in perfect condition if stored correctly for years the first silicone dildo we got for pegging is now 6 years old but still in mint condition (vixen Leo )
Get some good thick water based lube I recomend lubrifist
Thanks for the advise everyone
The Wife picked The Red Rider
we will let you know how we got on
Looks good, enjoy.
The first one we got was the Red Rider and boy did we have fun with it fantastic seeing the wife all dressed up in Pvc catsuit and the Red Rider strapped to her approaching me whilst strapped down on the bed.After a bit of foreplay with fingers and plenty of lube she slowly entered me all the way boy was it a good feeling and what a orgasm i had never cum as much in my life.Have fun and let us know how much you enjoyed it
So today myself and the hubby tried out the Red Rider, It was absolutley amazing, i can't wait to use it again. I loved to watch my hubby so turned on which turned me on even more. :-)
Thank you everyone for your input.