Hi,
Basically things have got pretty desperate for me to post on here about this.
Typical situation, I have been with my bf for 2 years and there is a girl best friend.
She was not around before me, so none of this 'childhood' best friend thing.
We got on perfectly fine for the first year or so of mine and my bfs relationship as we were all part of the same group of friends, but as soon as she broke up with her boy she changed toward me:
No more friendly encounters in the loo, no more being girl pals on night out (we were the only two girls in the group) basically she became a bit of an 'out there girl', which is fair enough after a breakup, BUT.
She suddenly began having one to one meetings with my bf and was much more flirty than usual, I put it all down to paranoia at first and it wasn't until someone else pointed it out that I began to think of it.
I tried to ignore it but it became more and more infuriating, she delighted in interrupting us when we were talking or having a couply moment, she loved being touchy with him and watching me for a reaction, she excluded me from all group plans and had the boys under her thumb. She left me off my own boyfriend's birthday guest list among those for other events she organised.
There were dirty looks that my other girlfriends noticed, snide comments to make fun of sensitive topics, just general making me feel unwanted...so I have effectively left that group of friends, something that saddens me as I got on really well with all of them.
Now, I had got on with things with another group, ignoring her as best I could because at the end of the day, she is still one of his best friends.
A few weeks ago, I overheard her at a party saying some VERY petty things about me and it really upset me and my bf KNEW it upset me. I didn't WANT him to really do anything except accept the situation as a fight would solve nothing, but since then my own housemates have had to say things to this girl on nights out as THEY overhear her saying things and it is just going too far for my nerves!!
I have no idea what I am to expect him to do, nor what I should do to keep myself sane!!
Please help me!
D x