Don't worry. I've been playing anally with toys and having anal sex for most of my adult life (I'm 50). I can take and enjoy toys which are so much bigger than my oh and I'm still rea!ly tight for him. Your bum will stretch a huge amount if given the opportunity but will always return to 'normal' within a few hours. Hope this puts your mind at rest xx
Hello there and Welcome to the Forums. I agree entirely with what Terri JJ has stated, my wife and myself, use anal play as a big part in our love life, and it hasn't affected either of us in any way. So I wouldn't worry, and just ENJOY!! Yourselves :))
anal play is one of those subjets for me i have found thta you either like it or dont the muscles will always return to its natural state just after time things seem to enter easier but you will not be left with a big hole lol i like a slight bit of anal play maybe a finger to help stilmuate the male g spot but in my experience not tried anything bigger x
Hi just a suggestion, a book The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women is a fantastic informative book that is available from Lovehoney. The male version is also available, both are worth buying and will give you all the info and reassurance you need.
My OH and I enjoy anal play (9 years) , I have used glass butt plugs and anal beads and we have anal sex very very regularly. We also use an anal relaxant serum and I have never not returned to normal and my OH reassures me I feel just as tight as the first time we had anal sex! Relax and enjoy, like above kegel exercises are never a waste of time and are great during penetration.