It’s on the front wall of the vagina, up close to the cervix. So find the G Spot and keep going deeper. It’s not really a “spot” so you’ll need your partner to let you know if it’s feeling good. However, stimulating the area is likely to result in an increase in lubrication so you’ll feel that. Just don’t slam into the cervix (unless you know your partner is in to that).
It can be quite deep so fingers don’t always reach. If you are struggling, try positions that shorten the vaginal canal (such as doggy) or use a toy
It’s an interesting one.
I’ve never labelled it the A spot, and it doesn’t make my wife come on its own (she needs clit stimulation and preferably some penetration too), but sometimes she loves me proding her cervix, or there abouts, with my dick. It’s pretty lovely for me too, so not going to complain!!!
Definitely fact! Though you want to be careful up there because stimulating the A spot/cervix can feel great, but slamming into the cervix can cause period-like pain. So maybe find it, stimulate it, but stimulate it .gently.
Every data an opportunity to learn I would say so we both found something out of this . I think a multi attack approach is possibly the best approach with that said I’m going to bring in the heavy equipment to help out
I promise to take it slowly and carefully, that’s great advice thank you. I’ll also trim the nails and tentatively explore while I get a comment or two from the other half.
Oh yeah, the A-spot is real. Like the G-spot, they vary in sensitivity from person to person. My GF is absolutely crazy for A-spot stimulation. I put my hand inside her and press hard, moving slowly, and she basically becomes a hand puppet I like it too, but more a mildly firm rub.
Thank you, these positive replies reassure me I’m not on a fools errand.
As I mentioned in a previous reply, I’m confident I strayed into the A spots territory before. But wasn’t role playing Dr/Patient so wasn’t doing a thorough examination and there was a lot going on.