I’ve only been on the Lovehoney forum a short while but one thing that amazes me is the acceptance from everyone. there is no judgement or shaming we are what we are. I’ve read quite a few postings regarding “kinks” My life, you have opened my eyes and I’m 65, many things that have been stigmatised (sex at 65 one of them) are now in my eyes accepted as normal to the converted (LH). straight males (if there’s such a thing) having anal sex, trans, bi, gay, pan, my god all these descriptive words. I identify as male heterosexual, but after reading the forum I’d probably be described as pan. from the comfort of the forum I think I’d be comfortable having sex with any of you open, dirty, sexual, deviant, naughty, kinky perfect examples of intimate humanity. if you enjoy it, go for it. I’d love to screw you all.
I have only been part of this community a short while and am really enjoying what it brings to my life.
I am becoming more adventurous and being reassured that it’s OK is pretty massive. Realising that you are not alone in how you think is liberating and has definitely enhanced my sex life.
I agree, I find that LH Forum is a safe place to share of sexual experiencees or toys. I too have not been here very long, just over a month. I am a married Man. My wife and I consider ourselves as heterosexual couple, she has enabled me to be monogamous and she has opened up to my deviance and kinks. Since buying our latest toy, I have experienced more anal stuff. Since she is working late tonight I’m tempted to do some solo butt stuff. 
. Sorry I guess I didn’t need to include that last part.
Any way I seem to get in trouble here, when I share, apparently I get too descriptive and have been edited a bunch. I can’t keep up with all the various identities and roles that are out there. I agree that the lack of judgment here is welcoming and mostly we all encourage each other to get off. I say do you or do who you want to do, let others do you. Bring on the toys do them too. Keep sharing those experiences.
@Pspottickler now that’s appreciation. Lol
I came here because I love the Lovehoney toys, and I kept getting told that by 40 my sexlife would be all but over. Joining the LH forums reassured me that it’s definitely not over. I enjoy that we can talk openly here while also being respectful.
@BUSTYSTCLAIRE I’m still active and over 50. I love that . Im also happy for you too.
Like the rest I like how you can freely ask about things and you can get honest answers with no fear of judgement.
And I joined after looking to buy new toys so we could experiment more with anal on both of us. And have since purchased more toys than either of us would ever have expected. All from reading the forum and trying what others have been trying.
Great times all round.
It’s so great you’ve found a place to be yourself with no fear.
Most of the forum users are relaxed, open minded individuals. If your thing isn’t their thing, they mostly keep their opinion under wraps.
And those that aren’t are kept in-line by Forum Mods and Brenna. 
Their hard work keeps the forum a safe space. x
This forum has helped our sexlife enormously. We now both are more relaxed about sex and enjoy each others ‘kinks’. Her toys, me lingerie 
I found the forum some years ago now and its so refreshing to find a forum/social media that is so friendly. The rules are controlled and moderated by @Lovehoney_Brenna which is great . The bad apples (so to speak) don’t hang around for long. Welcome to everyone .
@BUSTYSTCLAIRE As I said my OH and I are 65, she knows all she has to do is bend over in front of me and… well, all hell breaks loose 
@Noone1 Edited a bunch, now that’s a kink I’ve never heard of.
@Pspottickler edit kink. Lol
.. nice to have you here @Pspottickler
Yes I’m finding this a place of, I suppose, safety. I’ve had a bumpy few years, can’t afford therapy just now and have found it can be a much needed relief. There’s a surprising number of folks in the same boat and some of the support I’ve had from strangers has been genuinely heartwarming.
And on top of that we get to talk about penises, vaginas and all the weird and wondeful stuff we like to do with them, with all sorts of people from all over the world. Love it.
I haven’t been banned yet, so that’s great.
lol! Glad to hear you’ve found this space to be very welcoming 
The diversity of expressing your sexuality absolutely blows my mind on here. People just enjoying whatever blows their socks off. Maybe not into some of the stuff on here, but your kink may be my normal, my normal may be your kink. I want to try kinks to make them my normal…
that’s the kind of thing I like to hear!
I wish no one judged.
I’m a live and let live kind of person. I’m almost 60 now.
Race, sex, nationality etc. don’t matter. What matters is whether a person is nice, kind, helpful, caring, understanding, patient etc.
We all know there are good and bad teachers, cops etc.
That extends to those who are religious too. There are good and bad Christians.
That extends to atheists too. There are good and bad folks who are atheist as well.
Being Christian doesn’t make one bad automatically just like being an atheist doesn’t make a person good automatically.
I don’t care if a person is religious, Christian, an atheist, what nationality they are, what sex they are etc. I only care if they are a good person, not judgmental. Are they kind? Helpful, understanding etc.
Ive had a very active sexual lifestyle all my married life till at 55 years old we separated i was very aware that if you don’t use it you loose it as they say . That can happen at any age . Meeting someone else in a similar scenario years later and both wanting to enjoy the lifestyle you once had and enjoyed was daunting but great once we opened up about everything we loved and wanted to do or try to do. Libido is getting reignited and once again at over 60 years old the lifestyle i thought was lost is now back . So thinking at 40 it all stops it can if you let it happen. But if you want to keep going. I don’t think there’s an age limit but it might be a bit different to previously as you might not be as fit or flexible as you once were. But have fun with everything you do and especially if you both try something from lovehoney there’s a toy for everyone and just finding the right one for you is part of the fun . Or having a few options to play with is great . We’ll for me anyway. Keep it real and enjoy your life the way you want it .