So I just got my love honey high roller today and was beyond excited to test it out. I normally like to lay on my back when using similar toys, however this one kept sliping out. I've never had this problem before and it kind of annoyed me a bit as this was the thing I most was looking forward to.
I noticed if I sat up and was able to lean to some extent it slid but not out like it was doing before. Also adjusting and only using one function either the vibration or roatating tip seem to help limit it's unwanted movement.
Has anyone had trouble with this or other P-spot massagers with keeping them in? If so what tips do you have?
I have two P spot massagers and one of them, the slightly smaller version, has started to slip out occasionally now. I believe it's because I am indulging in more anal play with larger plugs so my muscles relax more now.
I would imagine that the rotating function of the High Roller would exacerbate the problem by easing the muscles even further.
I've had a look at the revies for this and the similar P Stroke, and there are a few comments about the P stroke slipping out but not the larger High Roller.
Yeah I have numerous P spot toys and can’t get them to stay in. In the end I just end up holding it in place but makes for a less enjoyable experience. I would have a look as perhaps a bigger one I needed to stay in place.
The rotating function on it's own with no vibration stays in place, same for the vibration with out roation for the most part. The high roller is on the big end of what ive taken and takes a bit of work to get it in. Even the smaller booty buddy takes a little work to get it in.
kentcouple I eneded up sitting up right and that kept it relatively in but im not normaly super into that postion. I also held it in place to but ya that takes away from the experience including using the remote.
Had more luck on my seconded go with it, think it might have been comming out cause im too tight. Found relaxing and using a smaller toy first had better luck keep it in, also not using either function for 10-20 minutes before hand just toy in.
My prostate massager normally holds at the start but toward finishing I pops out I don’t know if it’s because of coming to climax and I tense a bit more or if it’s because I have had slightly bigger objects but it normally gets me to the end if I feel it slipping I push it back into place before it pops out. I find certain positions hold it better than others.
Have you considered one of the Nexus Revo products? Their toys are very high quality and I haven't had any issue with them staying put. It almost "locks in" once it gets fully inserted. I highly Reccommend!
Thanks for the tip, I'll keep them in mind on my next order. Currently still working with the high roller and having mixed results though when they are good they are fantastic. I'm thinking it's just gonna take a lot of time to get use to it but I don't mind the research ;)
I have the same problem with my vibrating prostrate massager . I have been trying to let myself buy the Nexus Revo Extreme Remote Control Rotating Prostrate Massager . I can not imagine with it's girth that there is much chance of it falling out . But the size is a bit intimidating . But the thought of having a hands free prostrate massage orgasm is just about got me talked into spending that kind of money .
See a part of my problem has been the size actually, it's bulky and so it takes a bit to get used to. Have your tried mainly "sitting" with it in? That seems to be the trick for me to get mine to stay in, that plus time to adjust and adding settings over a few minutes in it.
Sitting would for sure keep it in place , but for many of my play motions I move around . I have smaller well shaped butt plugs that stay in well . I wish the most expensive would stay in so I could walk around and have my wife surprise me with the remote control . I have a feeling that larger , rotating one I mentioned above would milk my prostrate and bring super orgasms .
Oldman, same it's required some change in postions and movement but is very worth it when it's hitting the spot.
Butt plugs like the booty buddy and one I got at a local shop stay in place perfectly but ya it be great to keep the remote controlled ones in place to allow better movement. Think my boyfriend would love to be able to go out and control it like that or have me control it like that too(he loves his p-spot too).
I will say I bet the nexus one would feel incredible as the roatation on the high roller is what really plushes it over the edge.
@Enchantress29 I have had the same issue with the booty buddy P spot massager. I found the pinch toward the base was not sudden enough so it was able to slide out. I was tight when I first tried it but now I have increased the size of my adventures down stairs and it still slides out :(( my best solution was to use a belt over my shoulder and under my bum to hold it in. That way if you want to walk around with it there no risk of it dropping out.
Thats interesting as I’ve been able to walk around with my booty buddy in with out issue with and with out the bullet on. The high roller I’ve found sitting on it does keep it and have gotten use to that and I don greatly enjoy it. Also have found the mantric prostate vibe stays in and may be the best for me out of them all. Never thought about using a belt, with the high roller I was never trying to walk around just wanted to be able to lay and get off.
ooh ok i might try the mantric prostate vibe. it is a little distracting when it falls out when you are laying down and getting off. i also have the curve cruiser which i find doesnt stay put very well, without the bullet it is able stay in a little more though. one thing i have been looking into because of the good reviews is the aneros line, not sure how they go staying in for people that have had trouble with other styles though. i do like the look of the icicles no 46, rocks off big boy, rocks off o-boy prostate massagers because they appear to have a very narrow base and bulbous top which im guessing might help them stay in! good luck on your adventures :))
Can’t speaking to those rocks off ones but I just bought the rocks off cheeky boy so I’ll update after I try it.
Also ya sitting on the high roller does the trick, can keep it in with out the rotating on laying but much prefer to just sit and have it on.