So me and the OH are looking to dabble in a spot of anal play and I have been searching Lovehoney for the perfect butt plug. But after reading the reviews on a number of products I have found that I'm even more uncertain and bewildered now than I was when I started. So I thought I would ask you lovely people for your advice. I had a look around on the forums first and had a look through the Butt Plug Cafe thread but couldn't find what I was looking for.
I've never had anything up there before, so I'm looking for something on the smaller side. But I'm not opposed to starting with something a little more ambitious as I enjoy the feeling of fullness. My biggest concern is that it doesn't fall out once it's in; I don't intend to wear it out and about but I would be absolutely mortifed if it were to fall out during sex.
I have narrowed my list down to the following items, but am still very uncertain and so would really appreciate any first-hand advice about the following, particularly in regards to its tendency to fall out. Or if you have any other suggestions they would be most welcome.