For ages I told my feller I like ruff sex, as is slapping, fisting, total domination. He wasn’t keen on the idea but eventually he did it (and it was fantastic). He did the whole tying me to the bed, blindfold and playing the part!!. At the end of it he freaked out, he said he had got carried away, he felt guilty that he slapped me across the face (a few times) and that he had made me bleed.
I tried telling him its fine and that often I bleed a bit after fisting, since then he hasn’t done it again. I asked him if he enjoyed it? He said yes....... but still there has been no repeat. Can any blokes give me an idea of what is going on in his head, and has any girls ever had this problem and have any advice on what to do?