I'm new to this site and to sex toys in general so I wanted to ask for advice. Lately I've been thinking a lot about purchasing a toy or two but there are so many options, it's a bit overwhelming, especially as I've never tried anything of the sort before. I was thinking more along the lines of an external one, and my needs would be the following:
1. Something cheap - as it is a first purchase, and I don't know if I'll like it or not, I wpuldn't want to spend lots of money on it
2. Something discreet - I live at home with my mom and my sister (younger, but still over 18) and although we all respect each other's privacy, it's still not something I'd like to have pop out and be absolutely clear what it is
3. Single speed or multi speed? Which do you think is best for a first timer?
Browsing around, I've been particularly looking at these two items http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9670 and http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14881 or maybe this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14042 But everything seems to have such good reviews, I'm a bit lost.
Thoughts? Ideas? I'm open to suggestions. And thank you in advanvce for your help!