My partner has a very low sex drive so sex is very rare. After my partner cums, she literally does not let me touch her anywhere. She’ll let me go inside to quickly cum if I’ve not already but can’t touch or kiss anywhere as says she can’t cope with being touched after she cums.
Is this normal or does it sound like she’s finding it a chore and just doing the basics to get it over with?
Firstly all women are different. I for instance am multi orgasmic so can keep going my clit may need a couple of minutes but i can be touched or kissed anywhere. But that is me although it is a bit odd that she doesnt like to be kissed as i do enjoy a kiss and cuddle afterwards.
My wife is the same, as soon as a big orgasm hits, she cannot physically take any clitoral stimulation at all. Penetration is fine but the clit is a no go - way too sensitive
When my wife cums her clit is a no go, far too sensitive. She does like me to put my dick in her pussy which gives her an extra sensation which she loves. Needless to say it doesnt take me long to fill her up…
It’s not uncommon for some women to be one and done. I’m the complete, and have multiple orgasms.
This topic often does pop up. For me, I do get the feeling for some women as you say, they see it as a chore and want it over and done with as soon as possible. I’m the complete opposite and try to drag it out as long as possible. It should be enjoyable and more time together should be spent on it.
As for kissing and touching, only you know your wife, so if you have any doubts, I would personally speak with her 
Everyones different. There is NO normal.
Does she deal with depression or is she on the pill? They and anti-depressants can affect libido.
My OH usually cums once and then her clit can be too sensitive for direct stimulation, but she’s good for anything else. And then if we know we’re making a day of it we’ve been able to resume clit play within a couple of minutes and she can cum a few times. Depends on the individual and how horny they are at any given time.
Most of the time I can cum once and then I’m done. But likewise if we’re making a day of it then it’ll be several times. The mood, the pace, the excitement, all play a part.
Best thing you can do is talk to her.
Sometimes im 1 and done but most of the time I csn keep going to have multiple orgasms
But like others have said we are all different
I feel this happens with both sexes, once the orgasm bubble bursts you sometimes can just lose total interest as your fulfilled.
but it essentially is down to the person, some people want to just get off and move on, some folks like a cuddle and kiss while sitting in a state of bliss, others feel they need to go get in the shower, some become super sensitive and it can be painful to touch… the list goes on. Unfortunately without being in your partners thoughts and feelings no one will know.
the best thing to do is just ask, see if she’s just too sensitive etc. if she’s happy for you to finish then she’s clearly not avoiding intimacy. So have a lighthearted conversation, ask if she wants to try anything new or would like to change things up. For example my partner can cum and then wants to switch positions, kinda like having a starter (oral) main course (sex) dessert (lazy position sex for one more orgasm)
Depends on the O but my OH can be the same, she says she becomes to sensitive, she is willing to help me finish off though 
Maybe she’s experiencing some sort of sensory overload? Does she usually let you kiss and cuddle and touch her during day to day life? Or is she the sort who prefers not to be touched?
Once Mrs Balls is to a certain level of excitement, even before she has orgasmed, her clit is a no go area as it gets SUPER sensitive. She will come a couple of times from PIV but no direct touching of the clit.
For my OH it depends. Prior to meeting me she said she never experienced multiple orgasms. And only preferred me staying inside after I climaxed, between rounds as we kissed and held each other. Now I rub her clit whether im hard or deflated, and she enjoys that.
When using toys I bring her over the top and she gets over stimulation, clenching her legs tight, making it difficult to reach for her clit. I either touch her and kiss other areas until she settles down a bit.
Other times having her restrained. Playing with her with toys, giving her oral and penetrating her. She is unable to clinch her legs together, I bring her to multiple body shaking orgasms. Sometimes it’s still too intense for her and I have to stop for a few minutes, other times she is ok with me to continue.
She calls me bad, I tell her it’s pussy torture 
. Good thing I adhere to the safeword. 
I’ll also admit that my penis gets over stimulation and at times I can’t withstand the slightest touch. At times she ignores my plea to stop.
The OH is a one and done type… but after orgasming she wants hard dick and she wants it now
I can (and prefer to) keep going once I cum, to try for multiple orgasms. My clit can get a bit sensitive after, so at worst if its too delicate, we’ll take a brief pause. But post-sex, I’m all for the kissing/cuddling/spooning.
My girlfriend has a high sex drive and is only like that after she has multiple orgasms. That’s the only time when she does let me touch her down there.
I like to keep going I like her completely drained. Multiple O’s are fun to witness and create.
Samantha here. Everyone is different. For me personally, if iv just had a clit orgasm then its usually too sensitive to be touched again for a while. However, having orgasms from penetration either vaginally or anally is a different story. I can have dozens in one session.
My favourite is when we have sex and iv already cum lots, he cums in my pussy and then finishes me off by rubbing his cum into my clit. Mmm heaven
I’m definitely one that can only have one clitroral orgasm at a time, but after that one if there’s no sex I’ll get all sad. My bonding hormones go mad and I want to bond in the most primal way possible 
That’s the way I meant my girlfriend are except from anal because we don’t have anal, which she don’t allow for me to go there. She just reasonlly started asking me to go there with my tongue and touching with my fingers without penetration.