Age Appropriate Play/Sex

Sex Tips & Talk
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I was asked recently if I wanted to bottom for rope. When the scene was described all I could say was…only if we traveled back in time when I was that flexable…

First I was flattered they asked but I have to admit there are things my mind says I can do the my body says …the f*** you can. Like in my mind I think I can still dunk a basketball, the dream dies hard.

I have been known to play for hours and I still can, but there is a lot more caressing and other things to get some rest. Actually that has been a plus.

There are sexual positions I know I’m going to pay the price for and there are things I go…that was cute at 25 - 30 that I just sigh about now.

Is there anything you have to think twice about now that you used to do when you were younger?

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Keep going after cumming

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Hell i’m 37 and I messed my shoulder up bad attempting cowgirl :rofl:

Doesn’t mean I didn’t get right back on him a few weeks later, though :smiling_face_with_horns:

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Danger is everywhere…:rofl:

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Multiple sessions in one day. Even when I was in my early 50’s when I first met my wife, I could go two or more rounds in a day, and do that several times a week.These days, I can manage one session a day, maybe 3 times a week. If we are on holiday, sometimes I can go twice in a day, but not within minutes like before. And even though I exercise a lot, my stamina for demanding positions is not what it was. Spooning or standing doggy are good, missionary wears me out.

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Ankles up by the ears is now a no go what with the back pain and the cramp.

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Probably front seat car sex… when younger it was a hurried frenzy.

Now its a “ oh f@#k i’ve got cramp” …

“ where are you going, wrong entrance “

“ might need to open the sun roof”

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I was not all that limber when I was young . Now as I am approaching 70 , less so . I broke my back , neck twice have missing muscles from heart surgery in 1962 . Hips shot , shoulders shot , arthritis in hands . So I am not able to do near as many positions as I used to . It is interesting that my brain comes up with a different way to approach many challenges , sex and motorcycling require the most . I could sit around and whine about it , but I prefer to be creative . My need to be sexually happy over rides much pain and discomfort .

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I had a gentleman in his 70’s come to a party of mine. He was wheelchair bound and in odredr to play he had to lie down on the bed with the young lady lieing next to him. He was the hit of the party btw. He make due with what you have limitations and all. Always a work around.

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You don’t joke, my hips love to remind me that I’m getting old. The number of times i have to stop and stretch out cramp is not funny.

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I used to know a wheelchair bound Dom, great guy! Absolutely on his game with the psychology of BDSM.

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Books and covers…people shouldn’t judge they might get surprised.

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My husband’s about to turn 50 soon and there’s a lot of positions that he just can’t do anymore. But he’ll happily watch me do them with other guys. There was a few times where he would ask me if a particular position hurt just because it looked like it did. lol.

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And did he say…do it again?

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My hips. I have arthritis and if I get bent into the wrong position too fast it hurts. The other night hubby spread my legs a bit too forcefully while being playful and it almost sent me through the roof.

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whoa!