Not sure if this is the right place but… is a 58m and a 30f too big an age difference? We seriously like each other and want to have sex but part of me is unsure
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As long as it’s consensual and legal it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks 
Age is just a number.
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Exactly what @MsSubExperimenter said, age is just a number if you are both in agreement and it’s consensual and 28 is not that much of an age gap in the possible options out there.
It just gives you the opportunity to show with age comes wisdom and the young woman in question how her world should and can be rocked.
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@edwards.alij No, if it feels right for you both, then why not.
You only go round on this crazt merry-go-round, called life once.
Seize the day.
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As everyone else says both consenting adults go for.it…
Whats the worst that can happen
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Purely from a practical standpoint then right now if neither of you are looking for a long term commitment then yes go for it
Don’t do it for the wrong reasons tho for example bragging to your mates about the younger lady friend we have a friend that seems to do this and I don’t think it’s clever at all
As a 60 plus guy if I wasn’t married I’d certainly love to have a way younger woman as a partner
Remember if it becomes more serious stop and ask yourself where you might be in 10 or 20 years
Growing old together with an equally aged partner is in practical terms probably easier than where there’s an age gap
Or my alternative randy 60 plus years old response is go for it fuck her at every possible opportunity like it’s possibly your last and then do it again lol am I allowed to say that! 
It really does not matter what everyone else feels . If both of you are happy then get on with it.
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@steve19 shush! 
He’s looking for our blessing and permission so the Council of Coitus (TBC) NEEDS! to give its opinion. There’s no other way. 
It is formed from yourself, me, @MsSubExperimenter @chuckychester35 @Craig1234 & @DLJL by the way 
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Age tends to both compress and stretch as we get older.
Example:
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15 and 25 is likely illegal and makes most people go ick.
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25 and 35 is a little awkward if you think too hard about it
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35 and 45 is perfectly normal
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45 and 55 is “so cool you found each other”
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55 and 65 is just a discussion about who qualifies for the best discount
but then…
- 60 and 80 is the hard reality that one of you is likely going to be alone for a long time
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Motion carried.
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“Council of Coitus” made me laugh way harder than I should have 
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Then it did its job
I was a month off 22 when I met my 40yr old ex. We weren’t right for each other but it wasn’t the fault of the age gap. You’re at good ages, if it feels right and your conversation is good for what you are both wanting, then go for it!
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Age is just a number. If your happy and in love thats about all that matters. People are going to judge but thats just what people do. Ignoor them and be the beautiful power couple I’m sure you are!
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Age is just a number! As long as it consenting sex & not illegal you shouldn’t overthink if you care and like the person!
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I agree. I’ve found that the older I got it was the women fantasied about older guys. They always said that they knew how to please a woman 
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thats fine id fuck ladies twice my age or more if attraction was there
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@Lovetoyguy very subtle lol
Who are we to say what love is when it happens and a mutual connection is formed. As long as you’re both of consensual age then it’s in your hands to explore.
I remember when there was that guy in his 20s who fell for a lady in her 70s and was on a tv talk show which looked so weird and had many questions thrown at it yet when looking holistically, why should we care, if they’re both happy and not harming anyone else.