Age gaps

Obviously as long as it’s legal, I really don’t think age gap matters - it’s the person that’s important. However, I would want to be on the same level as someone in terms of maturity, life experiences etc. I do think that sometimes differences in age can cause a power imbalance, but it obviously depends on the people.

I’ve not personally had any significant age gaps with people I’ve slept with (no more than 1 year younger and probably about 8 years older) but I wouldn’t be opposed to it.

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Ah rats. That’s me out then. You big bumface. :slightly_smiling_face:

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:joy::joy::joy: That made me laugh. The standards aren’t even very high at all but it does seem to rule out quite a few unfortunately.

P.s. Big Bumface could be seen as quite the compliment! :peach:

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Just so you know, if you’d have said ‘Er, no. You’re the big bumface!’ then we’d have been legally married. :slightly_smiling_face:

I don’t see age gaps as an issue. Though after rewatching Friends I would be a little concerned if my (adult) daughter started banging my best mate. Moustache or no moustache. :slightly_smiling_face:

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I’d guess around 10 years for me (him older). I was 20 he was a friends cousin. Very handsome and had a bit of a past. All ended when he started getting soppy, the bad boy imagine fell away and I lost interest. Ah youth!!

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There’s hope for me yet, then! :crossed_fingers:

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Absolutely, my partner is 71, so don’t give up hope x

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Im 50 and my OH is 35. The OH beings it occasionally and at times it does concern me in some ways. Having said that everyone is different

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There are 19 years between myself and Bunny (I’m not saying who’s who…)
:shushing_face:

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I have only been with two people, the last one was 4 years difference I was the older one.

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Not in person but I had a ‘somewhat online relationship’ with an older lady, I must of been 20-21 and she was in her mid-late 40’s…was a massive turn on for me and think it’s why I adore a more mature lady. She was married at the time and husband knew.

Brilliant fun!! :red_lady1:

The oldest age gap that I’ve experienced was 27 years! I always wanted to do a ‘MILF’ and was lucky to fulfil that ambition as a 20 year old. Always had a thing for the older woman! Great night!

I errrrm pulled a young one one night… he looked older honest…then I asked his birth year and he was 24 years younger and then found out I knew his mum too…

:roll_eyes:

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I had a relationship with a woman 17 years older than me when I was 20. It was good fun and we both knew it wasn’t going to last a long time, so we made the most of it. The sex was absolutely fantastic but I had to leave to work away and she already had a career. We parted on good terms and stayed in touch for a couple of years until she married someone and started a family. Great memories and I’m grateful for her teaching me a lot about sex at that age. I’m sure my subsequent girlfriends benefitted too!

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I personally love older guys. I’m currently 19 and the largest age gap I have had so far was when I was 18 with a 27 year old. But defiantly willing to go older!

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Hemingway’s Across the River and into the Trees, he’s 50 and dates a 19 year old countess. The book got panned by the critics as the general opinion was there was no way this could happen

Interesting question , I had to really think . I would have to say 95% of the women I have been with were within 5 years of my age . After I got divorced I had repeated problems with younger women wanting to bed me . I got to be pretty good at figuring out if they were of age . A surprising number of them were NOT ! A friend of mine married a woman that was 2 years older than his mom . I was thinking " what the hell " . Then I met her and she was great . Everything was great until she really lost her sex drive , they are still married and he has a much younger girlfriend on the side with full approval of his wife .

I think I was about 40 , and the lady in question was in her 60s .
Most of the women ive had sex with have been older than me . I guess I just have a " thing" about older women …trouble is , athere 57 , there aren’t many left !!

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That sounds interesting, i’ll check this out! x

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Biggest age gap ever? 20 years.

First wife was only 2 years younger but the current (and when I say current I mean the last there’ll ever be of course!) one is a mere 17 years younger. :innocent:

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