What’s the biggest age gap between you and someone you’ve had sex with? For some people it doesn’t really matter but some people really seem to judge if the gap is massive? Did it have pros or cons for you?
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19 years is my biggest gap, he was older than me, when it comes to older if i’m attracted to them it doesn’t bother me. Younger is where I get weirded out, like I hooked up with a guy 10 years younger, I’m 29 he was 19. Still feel a bit weird about it honestly
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My ex for 4 years old and my current OH is 5 years older, never dated anyone younger than me.
My nans second husband had 30 years between them 
she was 80 and he was 50 something, made my dad feel weird that his step dad was almost same age has him 
I don’t think I could have a massive age gap like that though.
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14 years for me. He was older. It was great while it lasted and I wouldn’t be put off going older again. Age really is just a number and if anyone has a problem with it they obviously aren’t worth having in your life. That’s my opinion anyway.
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A woman in my team at work said she’d never go out with anyone 10 years older. If only she’d been 10 years older - and actually done some sex in that time - I might have wanted to. 
Oooh interesting thread!
I think my biggest one was when I was about 25 and the guy was 50ish. He was an actual gent. Just an all around nice guy.
My recent FWB, there’s about 12 years between us.
I have to agree that age is just a number and if they’re a decent enough person, they’re alright in my books.
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When I was 20 I slept with a 40 year old and there’s 10 years between me and my wife, me being the older one
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Biggest for me was about 25 years. She was near 50 when I was mid 20s. One night stand but actually a great night of sex. Only woman I’ve been with that squirted during sex
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@lazydog2009 Hiya and welcome…
OMG…just about the same as above…but I’m the woman…and he was that much younger…
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Hey @lazydog2009 welcome to the forum. Glad to see your getting involved.
16 years for me. Him being older
I’ve got friends with a 30 year age difference in their relationship. When they met she was 23, and they had to put up with all sorts of raised eyebrows, tutting and cradle-snatcher jokes. They got married 4 years back. They’re devoted to each other. 
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10 years for me, with him being older. No difference to having sex with somebody my age but all good fun!
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20 years difference
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I never knew her age but she was around 12-16 (I was young twenties she was middle ish thirties) years older than me. It was wonderful apart from she didn’t want her friends knowing yet wanted something more serious than casual sex. If I wasn’t such a secret would have gone on a lot longer.
Not really been with anyone younger than myself, generally everyone is around 2-7 years older than me, just the way things worked.
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25 ish years older. Never more than a few years younger though
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My current partner is 31 years older than me.
People assume he’s my dad and even referred to him as “dad”.
As for younger people, I don’t mind younger ladies, say 25+ but men have gotta be aged around 30-35.
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@AWB1955 we’ve been together for 13 years, been through it all with disapproved looks and family not approving, but we’re strong 
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19, the age difference never had the slightest impact over many years
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