Hey all. I’m after a butt plug I can wear for as long as comfortably possible. I’ve seen these but which would be best/safest/most secure. I’m always worried about it slipping in when wearing throughout the day.
BASICS Clear T-Bar Butt Plug
Lovehoney Booty Buddy Silicone Butt Plug
I currently have the booty buddy but find it too flexible for my liking. I’d rather the base was a bit more solid.
They both look the same so I’d say either one as they’ve got a T bar so no need to worry about it disappearing inside. Just have to remember to top up the lube throughout the day.
For a possible 3rd recommendation which is currently my favourite plug to use, have you considered getting a glass butt plug?
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/p/chrystalino-expert-glass-butt-plug-4-inch/72541.html
Just done a quick check and sadly the one I’ve got is out of stock but I would definitely say it’s by far the best I’ve yet had.
Hi @Sensualcouple2016 , you’ve put the link the the Lovehoney BASIC clear plug in for both links. Is this the Booty Buddy you’re talking about?
To be honest, I don’t think they’ll be a lot of difference between them function wise but the silicone one you already have is much more hygenic than the PVC would be.
However, for long term use I 100% agree with @AJSTAR , I think you’ll find glass far more comfortable! I imagine, you’re not going to be able to regularly reapply lube so it’s quite likely both the PVC and silicone would start to chafe. Glass is much smoother and needs far less (if any) lube so for long term use I’d definitely recommend the same plug @AJSTAR has linked above. The base is obviously far more solid that the Booty Buddy’s so a plus there too as that’s your preference.
Okay I’ll have a look into that. Shame it’s out of stock butt I’m willing to wait (pardon the pun) 
thanks @AJSTAR and @Peitho for the advice. The only really I worry as the T base of the booty buddy is very flexible and it worry’s me it could just be “folded” over and go up further. Whereas glass defiantly won’t go up any further with that handle.
For long term wear my OH normally finds a glass one the most comfortable to wear, I know that sounds counter intuitive but she thinks its down to how smooth they are and they dont absorb lube like silicones can, also they always have lot wider necks so keep her more open which is what she likes.
hey there @Sensualcouple2016
I’m no pro at extended wear of butt plugs but I have read that anything other than glass or stainless steel will absorb the lube over time and you will need to reapply.
I hope you find what works for you and when you do, if you wouldn’t mind sharing? thanks.
My thoughts exactly! The glass doesn’t need as much reapplication of lube and is better solid for a secure feel but mostly it just feels so much nicer than pvc or silicone plugs 
Indeed the glass one has a firm secure base and if by chance it don’t come back in stock on LH you could always go directly to the brand supplier
For long term wear a T bar base is far more comfortable than a round base. I doubt that you’ll get a T bar in glass though. You may have to go for stainless steel.
The Njoy stainless steel butt plug is brilliant to wear all day long. It’s comfortable but you always know you’ve got something up there. There expensive but will last for ever. As you’ve used butt plug before I’d recommend medium but I now sometimes use large. The stainless is smooth to slip in and loop won’t slip in and allows things to be attached. I can use mine 24 7. Enjoy.
You might try the Lovense Hush, if budget isn’t an issue.
Glass or metal probably best use a hybrid or oil based lube so it wont absorb also tight fitting pants try wearing round the house several times so you get to know how it feels and your body react? Ive worn a silicone one over night with oil based lube without incident.
As it happens I do but I wanted a passive butt plug that I could comfortably wear for extended periods rather than a prostate massager.
@AJSTAR ive managed to find the chrystalino one you mention in the end. Just ordered it. Can’t wait to try it on Thursday. I’ll have Mrs SC help with the fitment 
Yahoo!! Happy days for you! Be sure to let us all know how you get on as I’m sure it won’t disappoint 
You can wear the Hush 2 as a passive, just leave it off or put it in standby mode. You can use the alarm clock mode in standby mode to wake you up from a nap.
Wow the so I tried out the chrystalino for the first time last night. Let’s just say it was bigger than I expected but I still managed it with some patience. Looking forward to gradually building it up to all day west now. But it already felt more comfortable than what I’ve had in the past.
May i suggest anything in your size range from b-vibe.
I have taken long naps with this in,https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/non-vibrating-butt-plugs/p/b-vibe-snug-plug-3-large-weighted-silicone-butt-plug-4.5-inch/a38785g71368.html
with no issues.