So after a night of talking my OH and I have decided we want to start having sex without using condoms, but of course with me being on some sort of contraception.
It was a mutual agreement and we'd both suggested it happening later down the line not long after we first got together.
Anyhoo I was wondering what contraception you ladies and your OH's use?
I've always heard daft things like how the pill will make you gain weight, more hair, etc and quite frankly I don't want ANY of those things, plus my Mom is against any contraception other than condoms so I wouldn't want her to find any pills in my room and such. I know there is the coil, implant (don't really want that either tbh), injection etc.
If anyone has any good ideas, please let me know? I'm going to my doctor tomorrow and hoping they can help me on the matter. :)
Okay so we also agreed we both want to try anal after he was playing with my anus for a while and it felt really quite nice.
I've never trusted a guy enough to let him touch me there so when I allowed him to and it felt really nice, we came to the topic of giving it a go.
I think I know the standard procedure but I wanted to make sure that I'm right and that neither of us fuck it up, as I don't want to be left in pain or with any damage.
1. Douche self first (I own an anal douche already so that's okay).
2. Use a butt plug at first with OH to see how I feel about it.
3. If step 2. goes well, make sure to douche self again if it's a different occasion.
4. Put a condom on and make sure to lube OH's penis very well, as well as my anus.
5. Take it nice and slow, if it feels too painful stop and try again another time or throw in the towl and call it a day.
6. If it goes well the first time, try a little more each time, following from step 3. - 5.
Does this sound right? If not would anyone please recommend anything for us both to do? Or even things to buy from LH?
I have an anal douche as I mentioned before and the LH basic butt plug.
Hope this post wasn't toooooo long and boring and hope to get some help on this. :)
I'm a mixture of excited and nervous to try anal with him and he feels the same. :')