Got a partner who seems really into anal, which is something I am happy to explore.
I’ve never thought about douching and never done it previously, there never seems to be any issues post anal fun. However… recently whilst did some ‘self-exploration’ there, I felt I ‘made contact’ when I inserted a full finger up there and now its made me super paranoid!
Firstly, is it normal to be able to potentially feel something up there? Feel like this would really put partner off if he felt this (has this happened before or is it new just now that I know about it?!)
Secondly, I’m thinking of getting a douche and having a clear out before next session but I’m worried about a) not being able to expel everything and then it all coming out watery when something is inserted up there… and b) just making anything that may be up there wetter and therefore make it worse or runny when something is inserted?
Thoughts/ previous experience and advice very welcomed!