Anal experts dildo size progress

OH and I use a Janine Vac u lock Harness which I use to peg him & we love it but are now ready (perhaps that shoule be, he is now ready;) to go bigger. The Janine is 6 inches in circumference.

For his next trick my subby OH is not sure whether to go for either the Jeff Stryker with a circumference of 7 inches or whether to be really adventurous and go for theDoc Johsnon Hung - cumming in at an eye watering 8 inches circumference.

We'd both like to go big but also actually want to be able to use the thing. Lots of experienced anal players on LH; what do you experts (& these are only for experts) think?

Per dimensions stated, these toys are 8 mm apart diameter-wise, so the larger of the two is 16 mm wider than what he is using now. That's way too large a jump, in my opinion. I have usually progressed milimeter by milimeter — two at the most, then as now — and wouldn't consider a toy 3+ mm wider than my current max, at any point in time, unless that toy is severely oval in cross-section, and thus much easier than a circular toy.

It may be the case that the bums in question are capable of such huge jumps, but I bet they aren't. Therefore, if I were in your shoes I would choose something inbetween your current toy and the narrower of the two above — unless you have a budget for only one toy, in which case I'd recommend the smaller of the two, and plenty of time to play, plus low expectations to begin with, as it's easy to get frustrated with something that is ok for the eye, but too big for the butt in reality ;)

I suppose it also boils down to how easy is he finding the 6” toy? If it slides in with little resistance then you may find the jump to 7” OK. I would say that a jump of two inches is asking a lot, and while it doesn’t sound like a big step it will certainly feel it.

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After 10 years from the original post, I think he made the jump :grinning: