Just to clarify this, we don’t mean you can’t use words like ‘porn’.
We just ask that posts aren’t written in a way that is meant to titilate (either the writer themselves or a reader), or write them in such a way that it is an erotic story rather than a helpful anecdote
It’s explained brilliantly in this post:
It’s not so much a case of ‘too much detail’ if the detail is required, I’m referring more to when the person posting chooses to use harsh / expletive language to describe something when it really wasn’t required and the information passed on would have been equally as useful without it. For the sake of offering an example, I will break my own rule!
NO - “I rammed my asshole with my new anal dong last night - I can still feel myself throbbing and gaping as I write this. I smothered myself, the toy and my whole house in lube and squeezed it in, feeling my a-hole stretch over the tip. I can’t wait to use it again and watch myself cum over and over again. Next time I’m going to frantically frig myself off at the same time to see how much I can cum…”
YES - “I tried out my new anal dildo last night - it was amazing!! I made sure I used plenty of water-based lube and was impressed by how stretched it made me feel. Certain positions were better than others and I personally found inserting in a squatted position easiest. The orgasms were fantastic and I think it could be my new favourite toy! When I come to use it next time I think I’ll try using it alongside my bullet for clit stim as well.”
These two paragraphs basically say the same thing, but the choice of language is completely different - going back to the age old saying “It’s not what you say, but the way you say it”.
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