Have to agree Liquid Silk is so much better for any type of fun
They sell on LH
It’s unavoidable really. Ulike the vagina, the anus isn’t self lubricating so you need to re-apply regularly. A proper anal lubricant is thicker and slower to dry out.
That’s still perfectly helpful! Thank you 
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Another vote for liquid silk. Its definately our go to, especially for anal. We still have to reapply every so often, but it lasts longer than others weve tried and its not overly sticky
What sort of lube do you use? And are you using toys or just yourself to penetrate her?
A bit of advice please, I’d like to try anal with my wife and she’s made positive noises when I’ve brushed my finger around her hole when behind her, but to put it crudely, would people (receiving) go toilet first?
When I’ve ventured my fingers inside myself it’s not too far before you reach solids!
I love the thought of going in and we talked and she is not opposed but I’m reluctant, because of hygiene
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You’d defo need to have a slight advanced planning for this so she could choose to prepare herself maybe
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Wife and I are very much into anal, she prefers anal over PIV and we are into pegging. There is some planning and prep. Because this is a major part of our sex lives we are pretty in tune with our bodies. We watch our diets and both of us are pretty regular in our bathroom habits. There are time though that we will use a douche to make sure we are clean, it adds some piece of mind. I will usually douche about an hour after a bathroom break to make sure all is clean.
Thanks, that’s great and helpful.
Now to plan some fun
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Dont forget you cant just go at it like you might doing piv. If she has never done anal before you will need to start gradually with butt plugs and dildos that are smaller than you, otherwise it could put her off if it is painful.
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My Wife has asked me before why straight men are up for anal. I couldn’t really answer. I just know we both enjoy it. What’s everyone’s thoughts about it?
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If you enjoy it then you should be able to tell her why you do.
This is exactly how my female o/h approaches things, in fact almost the same phrase. I totally understand why.
It has meant that I’ve now learn’t what pegging feels like and the preparation required, graduating from smaller plugs, then a starter dildo upto the semi-realistic one I take now. Still it is early days (months actually 
) but she can manage a medium plug now, whereas I found to quicker to advance than her.
If we don’'t get there and she can’t actually take me then never mind we tried and kudos to her for even trying to enjoy it.
She has also been a bit uneasy about performing oral on me. As with the anal side, this was due to her previous husband being forceful and not loving over sexual matters. After 20 years together now, she knows that we do things differently and I’d never force her into anything.
On that note, I did mention on another post that I’d experienced oral sex with my best mate (also 50 M) fairly recently. When I told her that I knew what it was like (after a glass of wine lol) she actually was fairly impressed, especially when I said my jaw ached too !
PS : Some people might get kicked out for less, but she knew we’d masturbated together before, (which she assumed all guys did anyway !), so wasn’t worried.
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I don’t see how this can be gay. It’s when she gives herself completely. You - with the penis - must be very gentle. When you cum in her sesy butt hole, you cum stronger than in her vagina. At least I do. We don’t use condoms. Most of the time oh tells me when she wants anal.
Your wife could go up your bum with a strap-on and it still wouldn’t make you gay!! If its a blokes cock then maybe!! Bum play is for everyone if your adventurous enough
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Enjoying it up your bum doesn’t make you gay. Orientation has nothing to do with enjoying a specific sex act. It’s related to who your attracted to.
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Like previous posts say. Having anal sex with your woman doesn’t make you gay. Me and my wife have been venturing with Anal play a lot recently on both sides. All it is we’re in tune with each other. And if you’re gonna try something. Why not try it with the person you feel the most safest and secure with.
I used to be very concerned about what other people thought. But at long as consenting adults are enjoying themselves who cares.
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I’m a straight male and love having a sex toy up my bum. Anal pleasure can be amazing. It however does not make me desire to have a real penis in my ass.
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The first time we tried anal it did hurt me as my husband is on the large size and in our excitement we didn’t apply enough lube. We went months without trying again and then I was reading about it and we discussed trying again. This time we used butt plugs to get me used to being penetrated in the ass and lots ant lots of lube. The second time anal was great and painless. This prompted my husband to ask for me to peg him. That opened up a whole new dimension to our sex life. I absolutely love to peg him now and the total control I have over him when anal penetration happens is amazing.
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My Wife and I would love to have another child. Maybe it’s time to cum in the front door. Bum fun does NOT lead to babies!