August_A&R wrote:
Now I have some questions I'm wondering if you might be able to answer.
1. Whilst I think we will work upto beads or a plug I think we will be using fingers for the short term, however upon inserting my finger I found I was in a awkward position and whilst I was able to stimulate her clit with my free hand it wasn't easy. Can anyone suggest some positions we can try? I think knowing some upfront might mean we don't loose the moment having to work out logistics together.
2. Whilst I believe a woman can stimulate the males prostate with a finger I'm unsure what I should have been doing with my finger in her bottom. To be honest I kinda kept it still with the thought I didn't want to risk causing friction or similar by thrusting it in and out and thought it might be best to act as a butt plug, but again I'd appreciate some advice if there is something I could be doing to enhance her sensations even more.
thanks in advance
Hi,
I'd suggest her on her front and your thumb in her bum, leaving your fingers free to explore her clit or to finger her.
In terms of what you should be doing, ask her what feels good for her! I think it's lovely you were trying not to hurt her with friction, but as long as you're well lubed, that shouldn't be a problem. Personally, because we don't have the prostate to stimulate, what I love about it is actually the in and out, as the ring of the anus is stimulated.
Hope that helps!