New to anal wondering how deep is to deep with toys thank you
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Welcome back! How deep are you going so far?
I’d say you’ll definitely feel it if go too deep as you kinda hit a wall
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I can take 8" easily and 10" if i take it slowly.
There are videos showing people taking 24" of a long thin flexible butt plug.
I’ve tried the 6” but wondered about deeper penetration
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As long as you take it steady and it doesn’t hurt try and have some fun.
oh my god!
hubby and i did anal for the first time last year and he has a 7 inch willy that is very very wide and half way in i felt like he was touching my lungs!!! 10 inches is mad
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@Buckwild - welcome back
Me and my husband enjoy anal and we both enjoy 8 inch easily and 10 inch at a stretch - we tried 12 inch but it was painful when pushed in fully
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TBF there are some extreme anal porn stars where too deep isn’t a question!! I’ve seen gay videos with whole arms shoulder deep, women fully inserting 30/48" dildos!!
I’m not saying you should, but with the proper anal training and time length isn’t really a problem.
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But long term it can’t be good for anyone surely!
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Thank you for the advice everyone
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Me and my wife both enjoy 6" dildo which brings plenty enough to the party, not sure what any longer would achieve personally.
Girth is more of a game changer id have thought?..
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Yes. Girth is definitely more important than length once you get past 6 - 8 ".
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Start off with a small plug to warm up with, plenty of lube, and try different lengths and girths to see what feels good for you
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I have managed 18” and was so proud of myself afterwards… I videoed it for posterity as well! 
Just take it slow and careful, only do what you feel comfortable with at the time… one day I can do 12”, a couple of days later 6” will be a struggle…
Most of the time I get more enjoyment from stretch… my wife can just about fist me, but I can’t do depth and stretch, so can’t get to the elbow… yet!
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Yeah you’d defo be able to take a little more if go slowly with it. I’ve taken 12” before but there’s a point when you can feel it hit a wall and move into the intestines which is what happens when people take the really long toys
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@AJSTAR I also found when going that deep anal douching isn’t enough to be clean, the “expect” who go deeper actually starve themselves or use laxatives to make it clearer too.
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I can take a 6" up my ass when i jackoff but its really ttight
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Newbie here as well I can barely slide a finger in. looking forward to others’ replies.
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4 words…lube lube lube lube.
Keep working and you will get there. Start small and work up to bigger plugs and dildos
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Start with teasing the outside of the anus with a dry gloved finger, put lots of lube on the finger of the glove, and slowly insert the finger in. Pull the finger out slowly, put lots of lube on the butt plug, and then slowly insert the butt plug until the flange is the only thing showing. For penis penetration, be sure to use a condom with lots of lube on it.
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