Anal play - Changing Attitudes

Certainly not on a windy day…..

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Just about every day then. :skunk:

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I’ve just read that comment and laughed but I thought that I’m not entirely sure I would be comfortable letting my OH lick around there - even after a thorough scrub and clean of it - I can imagine it’s a nice thing to feel but not sure I would want her to go through that!! I’d do it to her if she’d ask but would not expect reciprocation!! :rofl::rofl:

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He suffers a bit from IBS so it can be quite sudden. Really would not want to be down there when that happened. :nauseated_face:

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That’s exactly my reason for not letting her down there - I can generally control the IBS and would be comfortable with toys and gloved fingers but just can’t help being a wee bit self conscious about anything more intimate - especially as it can also get windy!! :slightly_smiling_face:

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I adore pegging but last night when my husband was bent over I started licking his anus after pegging and felt my tongue enter his anus and rimming him - loved it

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Is there a good vibrator that can be used for both vaginal and anal use. Obviously you would certainly clean it between purposes - but looking for something that can be used for her and also be a way I can start to see if I want to pursue P spot adventures.

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I hope you husband realises how lucky he is @batjamboree

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Definitely changed. Mainstream media has had a huge impact on many aspects of sex previously seen as kinks and with internet I think it’s just so much easier to read and discuss stuff without feeling odd

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Wife and I have been together for over 40 years. Wife has enjoyed anal the entire time. I started on the receiving end fifteen years ago and we peg weekly if not more. We are both 62 and anal sex has been something my generation has enjoyed as long as I can remember.

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As a single straight guy, anal play was never something I initially considered but after a while of debating it I bit the bullet, it wasn’t the best first experience but after a few more attempts I was able to get to grips with it a bit better and using a proper lube instead of household lubricants changed the game.

However after my initial excitement with solo anal play I felt a bit of personal shame, despite being straight I felt embarrassed that I enjoyed it so much. This led me to throw away my buttplug I was looking forward to using and made me stop masturbating for a while as a whole. Now I have rid myself of that shame and am happy to anally masturbate, although now I find myself struggling to find the time as well as despising the cleanup each time :joy: Ultimately I can’t speak for others but for myself I went from loving it, to being ashamed of it to now being able to enjoy it again and am hoping to acquire some toys at some point to make the experience even better.

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Same for me, never even considered it would be something that would interest me. Definitely enjoyed the feeling whenever the OH hands moved around that area during foreplay or massage etc. We got a plug in a couples kit and tried that I’ve been interested ever since. We’ve discussed the idea of trying pegging and would like to give it a go for sure. Think I’m probably the most excited to see the love of my life wearing a strap on dick to be honest :rofl::rofl::rofl: that’s also something I never thought I’d experience. That’s certainly something I’m very keen to watch in the mirror :hot_face::hot_face::hot_face:

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