This feels like a bit of a gross question to ask, but anything goes here, right?!
My boyfriend and I are enjoying exploring anal play and like having a finger up each other’s bums. Usually everything is clean and lovely, but the last time I was left with a bit of …residue on my finger. That’s fine, I’m not squeamish about it and I can clean up. His mind-blowing legs-shaking orgasm more than compensated. However, I’ve been left with what feels like a tiny bit grit under my fingernail and it’s really uncomfortable. Which has made me think we should be using some sort of finger protection - latex gloves?! Feels a bit medical though. I thought about cutting a finger off to use, but then worried it’s get lost up there! Does anyone have any tips? I’m already keeping my fingernails very short obviously. And I’ve thought about suggesting a toy / butt plug / dildo instead but he might be resistant to that.
Finger cots or dental dams are both possibilities, but surely the obvious thing is to use a condom?
Whilst you’re right to be cautious about the possibility of anything getting lost up there, something like the finger from a latex glove would most likely come out the next time he went to the toilet.
We do a lot of anal play and it does happen from time to time. My wife will use gloves when she wants to really finger me, but more because she has longer finger nails. We do use a douche and when showering before hand I/we will slide a soapy finger in our bum just to help clean.
Thanks for being brave in bringing that up, it’s not a nice subject is it I’ve got a douche but it kind of failed for me and made it more messy, I just end up weeing out my backside so I sort of gave up with that and just have a sponge down after toilet and keep the outside as clean as possible.
What can I say… it is not a clean environment, so there will be always be a bit of mess, it doesn’t matter how clean you try to be. It’s okay. Just use a nail brush for your nails and soap. That’s what I do anyway.
I started out with my finger but progressed to toys pretty quickly and I think it’s a really good idea because it means the toy is in your rear end rather than your fingers. there’s all sorts of toys you can use, some like butt plug although I prefer longer toys like vibrating anal beads and dildos.
And then once you finished with the toy, just clean off any mess. I always have some tissues hanging about in my room to deal with it.
I hope that helps and keep enjoying the bottom raiding, it is too much fun! X
Could still try mentioning to him about small toy or even a bullet vibrator to use, but there are actually finger covers I’ve seen somewhere I think for use with anal play!
I’ve got a douche but it kind of failed for me and made it more messy, I just end up weeing out my backside