I am quite new to anal play when it comes to it going in me but i have got a small butt plug or to and love them and my girlfriend loves using them on me as well but i would love to get more pleasure and be and to deal with more as its a of my OH fanticys to peg me but i wont to make sure i am ready and its enjoyable for both of us
Is there any toys or toy kit that would help ?
And any general tips on making it easllier to more to bigger things ?
Hey Aaron!
We all start off the same! What really helped me was taking the time to practice and really get to know myself first. My wife would tell me to go downstairs for some alone time.
Douche to ensure I am clean and comfortable, a good water based lube and use my fingers, work my way deeper, adding another finger or two as I went, really focusing on finding and pleasuring my prostate.
I would have some good porn on the tablet to help take my mind off what I was doing and focus on the feeling. Pretty quickly you will be able to enjoy a nice 6" dildo. I would highly recommend the Lovehoney Lifelike lover to start. Try to avoid touching your penis too much and add it into the mix once you found the sweetspot for an intense orgasm.
There are plenty of guides online which helped me too. Hope this helps, we all start in the same place but we are all unique and different. Any more questions just ask. Good luck and most of all enjoy! Nothing hotter than a strong woman with a strapon 
Thanks that really helps ! And Yer the idea of her with a strapon is just amazing !
If you’re looking at getting into pegging then this could be a good start. There’s an element of fun for her too, the actual dildo that’ll be going in you isn’t big at all and the knickers are more comfortable and stable than many harnesses
That looks amazing thanks !!
There are some anal training kits on the site. I know b-vibe does one that gets good reviews. Alternatively you can buy i series of different sized dildos or plug and slowly work your way up in size.
Try not to make the size differences between them too big. 1inch circumference between them at most really (i went in half inches personally, which i found more comfortable).
If you get butt cramp when trying a new anal toy, especially one of a larger size than your used to, its a good idea to remove it as your bodys telling you its had enough and needs a break.
Slow is best. Listen to your body. Let it acclimatise to a toy over at several sessions at least before going up a size.
(Also lube, good anal lube, plenty of it. Don’t be afraid to put more on part way through a session. If your leavening a plug in for extended periods, relube periodically)
Some of the dildos on the site are really very small, easily the same circumference of a beginners butt plug, so you could just start with a very small one for pegging and slowly get bigger over time.
The sensation of a dildo is very different from a plug though, so id recommend getting used to using the dildo solo (or at least not in a harness) before letting her try to peg you with it.
Besides other things, this will help you to be more relaxed when you try it for real.
Hopefully some of this is useful.
Best tip personally, really relax before trying to insert anything (foreplay is also really helpful) and take deep slow breaths. Breathing like this as your inserting anything and whenever you feel yourself start to tense up really makes things alot easier and more comfy. 
Amazing thanks !
Dependent on what Country you are in, Lovehoney have some informative video’s on youtube relating to anal play and strap on’s. If you are UK you will however need to verify your age unfortunately.
Thanks i will have a look
Something like an Aneros would be a good buy. Specifically the MGX syn, imho their best beginner model. The silicone is really good and it’s comfy too
@Aaran, Oh yes, also try and pick a dildo of a slightly smaller size than the plug your currently using. They are alot more intense sensation wise as they dont have the thin neck section of a plug.
If theres isnt one, maybe try getting a slightly bigger plug first, to get used to a larger circumference (as before, dont try to size up too fast)
Different materials also make a massive difference to sensation analy. Glass and steel are more intense (i made the slight error of picking a glass plug as my first 
This one. Actually a fab plug if you want to try glass) silicone is much more forgiving, so it might be best to pick a silicone dildo for your first one.
The various Strap on guides @DanceswithPenguins helpfully mentiond
Thanks will remember that about glass and metal is that just because its a much hard object ?
Yup, Basically The inflexibility of it. Also i find if its cold too, that makes it more intense.
Glass and metal are great, and if youve tried a few silicone ones already they’re definitely worth a go. Not great for a first plug or dildo, but alot of fun once you’ve got used to the sensation of anal toys and want to try something a little different.
Okay that makes sense maybes in the future thanks for the help
Another tip after reading other replies is I found through experience to try and buy a dildo that does not have too big a head. Can be less comfortable stretching over a bulbus head and can be less comfortable stretching back over it when removing 
Hello Aaron! As someone who only made the move into anal last year, I can definitely relate! However, I would recommend that you start with anal masturbation first rather than jumping into pegging, as if you are your partner are both inexperienced you aren’t necessarily going to know how to massage your prostate and you might hurt yourself.
I definitely would recommend you using an anal specific sex you (such as a curved dildo or the Njoy Pure Wand) to masturbate with to find your prostate, know how your body works for you and to know how to give yourself wet prostate orgasms and the amazing dry “super” prostate orgasm, which is several minutes of non-stop dry orgasming!
I’ve written quite a lot about using the Njoy and prostate orgasms in other posts on this forum but do ask me if you have any question! I spent months researching prostate orgasms and after lots of hard work I have (but only a few times) managed to give myself that unreal dry “super” orgasm, which is unlike anything else you will ever experience!
That sounds amazing thanks and Yer u would love to hear any tips and trick that would help me to get a prostate orgasm and what’s evan tye difference between the too ? Thanks
Of course! Here’s the thread that I started a few months ago with lots of stuff about prostate orgasms:
The biggest difference between a dry prostate orgasm and a penis orgasm is that you don’t ejaculate, which not only feels really amazing but also it means you can keep going and have multiple orgasms, which for men is honestly so amazing!
A wet prostate orgasm is different too, as rather than ejaculating semen, you squirt out something that’s like pre-cum, but also as you are not ejaculating you can do this multiple times!
But this all requires lots of practice!
If you have some live reviews and are able to test out products in the required deadline etc, maybe worth voting for the LeWand Hoop in the current tester list. This is most comparable to the Njoy Pure Wand. But has a different larger end that looks really good for p-spot play, it’s a big flatter than the Njoy so should increase surface area on the prostate.