I recently bought the WAD Beyonder Extra Large Anal Dildo 11 Inch, and I’m having some difficulty with the physical mechanics of actually getting into a position where I can get it inside me. Because it’s quite soft textured and floppy, it doesn’t stand up for me to sit on and because I need a fair bit of lube, my hands keep slipping and sliding down it when I try a different position. Anyone had any success with this toy on their own? Or is it something to be used more with a partner?
With a towel on the bed you could always apply the lube while in doggy and then once ready transition into lying on your side and inserting starting with your hand at least half way up the shaft and then if it starts to slip back out you have your heel to hold it in place while you reposition your hand to insert more.
The comedienne in me wants to suggested a run and jump and sit on it before it can fall down, but let’s be serious here.
Personally i don’t get on with silicone dildos and for the same reason you describe: they’re soft and squsihy and can be a nightmare to heep hold of with lubed hands. I have the BASICS 6 inch suction cup dimdo and i have the same problem; it can be too squishy to do anything with.
I second @JGood 's advice, about starting off in doggy and transferring. The other thing that sometimes helps is holding them by the base and kind of pushing them in eithbyour fingers.