Anniversary Dilemma! What would you do?

Hey lovely people,

I’m in a bit of a fuzz over our wedding anniversary in two weeks time. I told my mother my plans - a family sit-down meal at a much-loved Indian restaurant - but she’s going away on the Friday before our anniversary so she won’t be here. Not a problem, I can work around that by picking another day. We saw hubby’s Dad on Saturday and he’s invited us out for his birthday this weekend. Guess where he’s going? To the same restaurant as we planned to go! So I’m now bookmarking something between the two for next weekend, only I’ve got absolutely no idea what to do. Part of me is contemplating doing a pub meal but knows that my mother can be a fussy eater, part of me is considering doing a garden party (a lot of prep and a lot of stress, can I really be bothered?) and part of me is contemplating a simple tea and a slice of cake to save money and avoid all of the fuss.

Help a girl out here! What would you do?

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How about a lunch in your garden the weathers looking great

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If you’re set on food and not breaking the bank then how about something like afternoon tea.

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Shh, don’t jinx us. I want to get at least another week out of it yet :joy:

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Fish and chip supper in the garden with strawberries and cream (or cake) for afters!!

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We all loves a bit of tea and cake! I’d go for that as reckon she’d maybe enjoy that better if anything like people I know :sweat_smile:

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I think the afternoon tea sounds like a winner to me. At home as the sun is set to shine hopefully. Is the anniversary a big one?

Picnic in the park everyone brings a dish to save the bank and you can do many things.

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Ashton Court Estate could be lovely

@Kh1985 I did say she’d have to come up for my curry battered fish (kind of a fusion fish pakora) at some point and she said “yuck”, so I guess not then. Honestly, she doesn’t know what she’s missing!

@AJSTAR we does, does we? :joy: granted I have a hard time saying no to carrot cake. It sounds like tea and cake might be the way to go.

@steve19 12 years. We did a pub dinner for our 10 year, Mum ordered a Pizza Margherita then said it was a bit plain. Hence, probably, the frantic panic to find something we know she won’t find fault with :joy:

@JGood Ashton Court Estate is the other side of the river from us and a bit of a pain to get to without a car, unless of course you’re offering :stuck_out_tongue:

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Well there is the tantric massage place your side of the river.

How many people need the dad taxi?

The leaf can carry me and plus 3 :zany_face::rofl:

Not somewhere I want to go with my mother, brother and father-in-law! :rofl:

Arguably two, though if needs be, I wouldn’t put it past Master to find his own set of wheels :joy:

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Personally, I’d say the anniversary is about you two, and just do something nice for the two of you. Sod the rest of them!

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By the way is any leftover carrot cake to be used for splooshing fun or food fights.

Or cake sits looking hopeful

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Well said, let the family just send a little gift their way and say so long and thanks for all the fish.

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@KinkyMira the anniversary itself is going to be just the two of us, doing what we haven’t quite yet decided, but it will be. This is more because the family likes to see us, and if we have to be civil then we might as well make it matter.

@JGood I don’t do leftover carrot cake. That’s an alien concept to me.

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What about Pizza and Prosecco el fresco.

Go on…

Wait wait, can we get Lambrini and pretend it’s champagne like we had to do on our wedding? Please? :grin:

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