So tomorrow we have some extra child free time so have planned to have intimate time together. Now with this knowledge I am extra extra horny - Anyone else have this reaction to planned naughty time…???
Also as LH have a 50% offer I have made a purchase that hopefully with be used on our normal Wednesday intimate day that we have everyweek - so even more horny now…
Yes anticipation always builds it up and I know for myself as a male it can affect my lasting power my wife doesn’t mind and isn’t expecting a marathon sex machine session but when you’ve been looking forward to something and ends up being anticlimactic is a bit of a downer but can always go again an hour or two later.
Once before we went to sleep my wife agreed that we could have anal sex in a few days for the first time, I didn’t sleep too much that night
I need to prep Mrs. Val in advance for a night together.
I find I really need to plan and build the anticipation to get her to buy in especially when the stress is high. She starts a new job today and hope she can find some self-confidence, even get hit on a bit as she has worked out of our home for the last 8 years and has no interaction with adults, really.
It sounds silly but I think she lacks that confidence that she is still attractive and can get people sexually excited. I’m hoping this is a new chapter for us with her being able to dress up, bring in a paycheck, grab a coffee, have lunch in the park… all those things that she has been missing by wiping kids asses and wrapping herself in a blanket with the dog mid day… Being out of the house hopefully will bring her some energy and self worth that literally rubs off on me…