hey.i recently tried being dominated for the first time. not hard.as in being ordered what to do to her and treated like a slave jus without the tieing up an too much hitting.blew my mind away,such a turn on!im not sure if id like to dominate a woman but loved it on me!
Having always been a fan of being dominated, I’ve recently switched roles. My other half really wanted to be dominated and he’s never had it done to him. So, I was happy to be his first! It’s sparked a major dominant side within me and I absolutely love it. We’re all about the pleasurable pain. He’s given me no limits and trusts my judgement. He has safewords if he needs them. Amber is I’m reaching his threshold and red to stop immediately. He’s never used red and I don’t think he ever will. He’s a real trooper. It was nerve wracking being the dominant one but I did it in my own way to break me in - after sinking a bottle of wine for Dutch courage lol. He really enjoyed my version dominance. It’s very exciting to be in control.
being very aggressively told what to do to her blew mi mind..gasping for air while she sat on my face n not getting off me was unexplainably good,getting teased with rewards yet not letting me cum.she was a stranger to me(not gf had jus met)not sure if i’d be comfortable dominating a woman i don’t know or am i being shy?
When it comes to dominating a woman, there needs to be trust. You need to be aware of their boundaries. If you don’t know them, I think it’s more about how you handle them than how you speak to them - not everyone can handle degradation or likes being called a slut etc. Drag them across the bed, flip their legs up, position them how you want them, fuck them hard. It’s hard when you don’t know a person because there is such a fine line - especially when it’s a woman. There’s a fine line between abuse, playing rough and taking what you want etc. If you are naturally submissive, it’s not easy to switch. If you have someone you trust to practice with and you enjoy it, then give it a go with others if they consent. But it’s ok to be naturally submissive. Men so often take the dominant role and are expected to, but I think it’s good if a woman can be spontaneous and take the lead. Most men love it. It takes a lot of pressure off of them. It’s easy to please a man generally... but it’s hard to get a woman off. So if she takes control, you’re likely to get her to finish and so many woman don’t realise that. They moan that they don’t orgasm... but if the guy doesn’t know what gets them going, it’s an impossible mission. A little direction never hurt anyone. And every woman is different.
its why i loved it,all men easily cum by pretty straight forward ways.women are so different,all completly different,being told how to do it for them is amazing