i used to reckon i was alright at bjs, quite like watching guys doing it on guys and would just copy what they done (who else would give a guy a better bj than a guy lol?) but i have to say i think the last few ive done have been lacking skill lol any bj enthusiasts like to give tips?? what feels best? i get confused coz im told by OH the more i get in my mouth the better and the harder i suck the better but how can i suck hard with the full lot in my mouth?lol!
constant ball playing whilst blowing seems to go down well :)
i tend to use my hand at the same time i suck moving them together if this makes sense
yep i use my hands, mouth and tounge all at once but just dont know wheres the best bit to use my tounge etc all ive been told its harders better, wetters better, further downs better lol x
pinkk wrote:
yep i use my hands, mouth and tounge all at once but just dont know wheres the best bit to use my tounge etc all ive been told its harders better, wetters better, further downs better lol x
it turns me on knowing the woman is enjoying to be honest. tell the guy how much you like doing it. feels hell of a lot better when its nice and wet. dry is not good! lol x
there is a contradiction , the deeper the beter in principle but the end is most sensitive....men ehhhhhh
gunther wrote:
there is a contradiction , the deeper the beter in principle but the end is most sensitive....men ehhhhhh
lol 
yep, the oh gets me all wet and hard and then flicks her tongue really quickly over the end.....orgasmic!!
correct! it doesnt interest me!
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The problem with giving BJ tips is that every guy is different! They all like different things. I find that taking my time, varying depth & speed, hands/no hands, all building up slowly... I've never had any complaints, lol :) the main thing is to show your enthusiasm, I've heard that's the sexiest part!
i apparantly give an extremely good bj, the gereal way i learnt was to watch porn and just do what they do lol xx
willing_to_try wrote:
pinkk wrote:
yep i use my hands, mouth and tounge all at once but just dont know wheres the best bit to use my tounge etc all ive been told its harders better, wetters better, further downs better lol x
it turns me on knowing the woman is enjoying to be honest. tell the guy how much you like doing it. feels hell of a lot better when its nice and wet. dry is not good! lol x
he's right. it the cock worship thing that huge turn on. in terms of how much in mouth n how hard u suck. i think the less in mouth the more forceful the suck i.e suck the head and wen deep throat then sucking not as important as lips tight around shaft.
everyone is different..i dont like my balls played with. i also think using hand connected to mouth it easy for girl yet the feeling is somewhat muddled. i prefer mouth alone with intermittent long lips n tongue swirls
naughtywildfun90 wrote:
i apparantly give an extremely good bj, the gereal way i learnt was to watch porn and just do what they do lol xx
Do men really like the porn type bjs? Its not a dig btw just curious x
Miss teach&nurse wrote:
naughtywildfun90 wrote:
i apparantly give an extremely good bj, the gereal way i learnt was to watch porn and just do what they do lol xx
Do men really like the porn type bjs? Its not a dig btw just curious x
I can only speak for myself and I dont watch a lot of porn.....lots of soft tongue and eye contact, not really what you see in porn
gunther wrote:
Miss teach&nurse wrote:
naughtywildfun90 wrote:
i apparantly give an extremely good bj, the gereal way i learnt was to watch porn and just do what they do lol xx
Do men really like the porn type bjs? Its not a dig btw just curious x
I can only speak for myself and I dont watch a lot of porn.....lots of soft tongue and eye contact, not really what you see in porn
I think they r quite violent (porn blow jobs) so im all about the more softer senses etc and yes i find my OH loves it when I look up through my eyelashes while sucking or teasing his head with my tongue. Ive never had any complaints infact ive always been raved about! lol
This just does prove that all men like diff things
Explore enthusiastically. Enthusiasm is the real key. Don't be afraid to experiment with different techniques and ask for feedback.
My OH enjoys my tongue on the bit of skin directly opposite his frenulum. So on the top side, just below the foreskin. I can make him orgasm using only my tongue if I focus on that spot. Means the 69 position is used more often than not even if he's not stimulating me.
Aside from that, plenty of spit and plenty of movement is usually good!
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Miss teach&nurse wrote:
gunther wrote:
about the more softer senses etc ive never had any complaints infact ive always been raved about! lol
This just does prove that all men like diff things
it only proves porn is porn
what works on the screen doesnt always work in the privacy of a relationship
Ork wrote:
gunther wrote:
Miss teach&nurse wrote:
gunther wrote:
about the more softer senses etc ive never had any complaints infact ive always been raved about! lol
This just does prove that all men like diff things
it only proves porn is porn
what works on the screen doesnt always work in the privacy of a relationship
Some of the porn I have seen make's me wonder how daft some of those chick's are in some cases there hair is grabbed and the head forced down choking them and making them gag this is apparently atractive to watch... I'm in to some stuff but it's clear the girl was not enjoying it.
Im with u on ur analysis of it
my OH likes that until the moment I start to come then I let go and she is in control or she gags and its a complete let down