Does anyone have any secret desires or fetish's they keep from their partner or perhaps have overcome it and had them fulfilled?
My secret fetish is PVC/latex clothing, anything PVC tbh. Just the look, feel, touch or watching others really turns me on. I have tried to introduce small things for us to wear, latex boxers for myself and crotchless body suit for my wife but its never got going to my disappointment!!!! I find myself watching porn (alone) to get a fix. I would love my wife to be interested but she doesn't get it.
Anyone got similar stories
The OH and I have various joint and individual fantasies, I think the key is to ensure that you are both fully comfortable with teh idea and then you will get plenty of enjoyment.
Not hidden anymore as we are finally honest with each other and ourselves, However still enjoy some of those fantasies through porn solo as they are awkward still. But that's ok.
I have LOTS of desires I would like to explore further. I would like to try anything once.
I really enjoy being watched and enjoy risky SITUATIONS. I am currently talking with a woman about some girl on girl - something I'm desperate to do and turns me on like crazy. Although my OH is a very straight arrow, so not able to explore those avenues with him.
I love having dirty messages sent to me and pictures /videos that are specifically for me, with the person talking in the video and saying what they'd like to do to me. I've also had sex toys delivered to me as a surprise gift, which was AMAZING!
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I love to sniff my OH pants; it was a secret until I had the courage to tell her. It turned her on.
So now we've agreed that I do it when she's not around (we have a place where she leaves me a pair) and share the story afterwards...
...tentacles
Pretty sure he knows from my fantasy erptic writings and fetish list on another website but I have always wanted to peg a guy and one day would love to do this.
I’m really turned on by being a Submissive and I’ve told my husband but he just isn’t into it and it’s really frustrating. He does see spank me sometimes but doesn’t really think about what he could do or how to do it to bring me pleasure nor does he read up on it to try to make it good. I’ve given up trying and just visualise it in my head instead. Not how i’d Like it but not really much choice
I'm only just discovering my fetishes, but my OH is on board with all of them, even if they are difficult for him to do sometimes. Before anything out of the ordinary happens, we have very long conversations with each other about what we expect and want etc. I think exploring them helps makes us closer as a couple and makes things more enjoyable.
With my ex I did a lot of my fantasies but they turned out to be either not as good as I thought or they’d cause arguments after.
I have a fetish for big perfect looking dicks. I think some look amazing.
I’d like to walk in on my OH getting anal from
A good looking she male. This will never happen though lol
I seem to have a desire to watch people having sex.
I like the thought of group sex but don’t think I’ve got the bottle to actually do it.
have LOTS of desires I would like to explore further. I would like to try anything once.
I really enjoy being watched and enjoy risky SITUATIONS. I am currently talking with a woman about some girl on girl - something I'm desperate to do and turns me on like crazy. Although my OH is a very straight arrow, so not able to explore those avenues with him.
I love having dirty messages sent to me and pictures /videos that are specifically for me, with the person talking in the video and saying what they'd like to do to me. I've also had sex toys delivered to me as a surprise gift, which was AMAZING!
S x
That sounds hot. Shame your other half can’t fulfill your desires
I can fully empathise here... My imagination is waaaaaay more vivid and diverse than my wifes. I generally get more exciting sex once a month, but thats about it.... :-/
Is this generally the case that men have more of an imagination?? Possibly a new thread. Does having more sex spur you on to have more sex? I sometimes go a few weeks without sex due to work/lifestyle's but the if we have it for a couple of nights she goesall rampant like she's missed out and wants moreLadiesMan wrote:
I can fully empathise here... My imagination is waaaaaay more vivid and diverse than my wifes. I generally get more exciting sex once a month, but thats about it.... :-/
So many desires, mostly unfulfilled. I'm interested in polyamory. But hubby would never go for it, so that's another closet desire.
Sexual compatibility is so important. I do wonder if mine and hubby's sex drive and interest in trying different things will ever truly be in sync.
I have a new one that my wife dominates me biting my nipples whilst tied up ending in her pegging me.
Hubbys was anal play and since we had a talk we tried and now love pegging.
We don’t have any secret desires anymore, after plenty of talk and communication were completely open and like to fulfill each others little fantasies. We tend to meet halfway on a few things and if either of us are not sure it simply stays a fantasy, but we both tend to try something once and if it doesn’t work then we scrap it.
Keeping your inner thoughts in a relationship can really cause problems with your feelings and slowly you may start acting up which will put a strain on things. Always best to just be 100% honest and hopefully your partner may have an interest in the same things!
LIL_KNOWN69 wrote:
We don’t have any secret desires anymore, after plenty of talk and communication were completely open and like to fulfill each others little fantasies. We tend to meet halfway on a few things and if either of us are not sure it simply stays a fantasy, but we both tend to try something once and if it doesn’t work then we scrap it.
Keeping your inner thoughts in a relationship can really cause problems with your feelings and slowly you may start acting up which will put a strain on things. Always best to just be 100% honest and hopefully your partner may have an interest in the same things!
Whilst I fully understand your rationale here , some fantasies IMHO are best kept to oneself. This is because if the fantasy was acted out, it may not live upto expectations and may be a dissappointment .This IMO could put a greater strain on things than keeping it secret in the first place. But this is just my view.
I don't think I do. I'm a bit of a "no filter" person in my relationships so as soon as it enters my head it's out of my mouth.
We don't have secrets from each other really we know the things we want to do and do LOTS already