Have you tried a paddle first? Might be a good way to work up to a cane.
From personal experience I’d use something like a paddle or something a bit wider first and see how you go on and then the cane, canes hurt more for me, but using something with W bigger surface area helps warm up to that. Either way though I suppose it’s finding what works for you and as long as you have a safe word and communicate clearly about it you’ll get to know what works best for you and what doesn’t ☺️
Would love a good spanking caning