So I m going to be getting the cabe for the first time what should I expect? Kinda excited and nervous. Is it worse then hairbrush Does the old "books down pants" trick work ?
There's a Lovehoney guide that you may find useful. It doesn't go into a huge amount of detail for canes, but there's some good tips nonetheless. 👍
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/buyers-guide/spanking-whipping-guide/
Thank you for that. OH has a cane here already, it's gunna be my first time being caned gulp
Generally canes are going to hurt more than a hairbrush but it depends how hard they go on you. Personally I wouldn’t care someone particularly hard on their first time.
Hi that's very kind of you Kelly Michelle, when would you do it hard
When I know they can handle (and want) the pain
Sorebilly wrote:
Thank you for that. OH has a cane here already, it's gunna be my first time being caned gulp
That's handy. 🙂 I think the main bits out of that article are to always use a safe word, and to "never spank above the waist, over the spine or kidneys or over joints such as the backs of the knees. This is dangerous, so good aim is very important".
Have fun. 🙂
I have only had a riding crop, never had a cane, have seen it done through, by mistress maby I'm not ready, Kelly mlchelle
I got 6 3 over pjs and 3 bare bum !! Her aim was very good !!
All of them right on the sit spots
Really depends what your pain threshold is. A few days ago I got 200 strokes of a fairly robust cane after a warm up. Did it hurt? You bet it did. My bum is still pretty sore and bruised. Marks will probably be there for about another week. Then will get it all over again.
Personally I think the cane.
wow 200 strokes you must really enjoy the pain respectjimbogemini wrote:
Really depends what your pain threshold is. A few days ago I got 200 strokes of a fairly robust cane after a warm up. Did it hurt? You bet it did. My bum is still pretty sore and bruised. Marks will probably be there for about another week. Then will get it all over again.
wow 200
So do I now !!
God it stings
Scorebilly are you for real
I am indeed real. Jimbigeminie !! 200 how did you manage that !!
The cane every time. It stings and cuts deep x
Oooh let us know how it goes xx I am just about to start indulging in the world of D/S and I am both super excited but also apprehensive and nervous lol xxx
I'm not really into spankings (I'm more of a choke and slap me kinda sub), but generally more surface area=less pain. A cane is gonna hurt more than a paddle or something like it.