Any tips to get a conservative wife to do anal?
Listen to her, if she doesn't want to, there's nothing less sexy than someone trying to convince you. Some women just have no desire to try it, if thats her feelings, you just have to respect that.
Well, to be honest, it happens, but not more than once a year. When I stick it into her bum, I always go slow. When she gets used to the feeling, she becomes non stoppable. She enjoys it so much that she moans, groans and almost screams when she cums. She cums twice before I finish.
She is like twice out of ten times when we have sex she sucks my cock before I penetrate her, but wouldn't let me finish in her mouth. I can hardly ever get my tongue close to her pussy. I also love to lick her asshole, but she always pushes me away.
Ah that's a different issue. I suppose the first thing to think about is why she does it when you do have anal, and why she doesn't at other times. Does she rebuff you when you ask, does she suggest it when she wants it etc? There might be clues there.
Often in these things, a gentle discussion is the best way forward, but it pays to do some thinking beforehand.
Somethings of interest to me too! I have recently let my other halfs fingers have a play in that area. I didn't dislike it to be honest but scared of the difference between a bit of finger play to full on cock action! Is it a case of just taking your time with these things?
Bagpuss, yes, taking your time is important. Take small steps, so don't try to jump straight to cock, use intermediately sized toys first. It is about training your ass (and by that, I mean training your mind to relax and be comfortable with your ass being penetrated).
The relaxation and being comfortable is most important, and can only really come through play and trust. Anal play is all about the mind - get that right, and you'll be amazed how big his cock can grow inside your ass.
Oh and lube, lots and lots of lube. Very important.
Have fun!
Thank you kinkymira. Something I am keen to try but one step at a time 😉 my oh is much bigger than I have ever been used to so just that is taking some getting used to 🙂
Beginning anal sex is a question of starting slow and small with plenty of lubricant and when you are comfortable with the sensations move up to larger plugs and finally, if you are ready, full anal sex. My wife was reluctant at first but willing to try and, with practice and care, she now really enjoys the whole experience.