Are submissive men less attractive?

What do you think of guys who are submissive? Are they less attractive as guys should be the leader?

Who said guys should be the leader???

When it comes to sub/dom it's whatever whoever is comfortable with. No rights or wrongs.

Think this pretty much translates into everyday life too tbh xxx

lovingnewtoys wrote:

Who said guys should be the leader???

When it comes to sub/dom it's whatever whoever is comfortable with. No rights or wrongs.

Think this pretty much translates into everyday life too tbh xxx

This.

If someone is looking for a Dominant guy, then a submissive guy may be less attractive, but that doesn't mean everyone wants a Dominant guy.

Personally, me and OH enjoy both roles, so we take it in turns...although don’t quite alternate, just see how the mood takes us.

kelly_michelle wrote:

lovingnewtoys wrote:

Who said guys should be the leader???

When it comes to sub/dom it's whatever whoever is comfortable with. No rights or wrongs.

Think this pretty much translates into everyday life too tbh xxx

This.

If someone is looking for a Dominant guy, then a submissive guy may be less attractive, but that doesn't mean everyone wants a Dominant guy.

Couldn’t agree more with the ladies above, everyone is attracted to different qualities/ behaviours.

Love it when my hubby is submissive! So in answer to your question no! Quite the opposite for me. Massive turn on when he’s all tied up and waiting for me

Usually my OH is the dominant one, but once in a blue moon there's a little switching and I absolutely love it! Just thinking of him on his knees pleasing me is great, also I don't usually like talking during sex, but saying something along the lines of 'show me how much you love my p*ssy' is a massive turn on!

RuggerBugger wrote:

Personally, me and OH enjoy both roles, so we take it in turns...although don’t quite alternate, just see how the mood takes us.

Totally with this. Depending on what mood I'm in, sometimes I like to be in charge and sometimes I just want to be tied up!

I personally love my guy being the leader, I'm not into being a dom - things may change one day, not sure though?!

Each to their own though, definitely. It's what you and your partner feel comfortable with that's important! x 💚

Personally love it when Mr L dominates me because I love seeing that side to him (in our day to day life hes a super softy) but then we tried pegging for the first time last week so it was sexy to see that submissive side to him as well. Either way, as long as it is with him I don't mind... We just go with whatever the mood takes us!

Technically I'm a switch, but I am way more towards the dominant side. I prefer submissive men because we obviously are a better match. ;)

However, I want them to have their own personality, opinions and voice when we are not 'playing' or teasing each other. If I wanted a puppy, I'd get one. I have a bunny.

Alicia4Ever wrote:

There's a line form a book I once read.

If she's feeling like being the queen she is, you better be on your knees; but if she's feeling like being the woman she is, you better scoop her up in your arms. And the light help the man who gets it wrong.

Love this.

Alicia4Ever wrote:

There's a line form a book I once read.

If she's feeling like being the queen she is, you better be on your knees; but if she's feeling like being the woman she is, you better scoop her up in your arms. And the light help the man who gets it wrong.

That's a very limited set of options. Is this book a historical romance by any chance? 🙂

Alicia4Ever wrote:

There's a line form a book I once read.

If she's feeling like being the queen she is, you better be on your knees; but if she's feeling like being the woman she is, you better scoop her up in your arms. And the light help the man who gets it wrong.

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