Curiousity is natural ... its human nature some people like to act on that curiosity
Think I'm similar! Straight, I think, but fantasise about cocks! Never done anything but think about it quite alot? Gets me very excited, love watching blowjobs on porn but imagining being both roles!
Scared of those thoughts a bit too! Don't fancy guys, just fantasise about the sex! Doing the and being the total opposite to what I've been and been used to all my life!
It will be interesting to see how sexuallity evolves as the societal conditioning of sexuality reduces/ becomes more accepting. I see a big change already in the attitudes of those who have had liberal parenting etc which I believe is on the increase, as is acceptance in the world at large. We have much more positive images of alternate sexualitys now. Of course the scale is not a straight line, and each person is a combination of where they sit on the homo/bi/hetro scale plus on the asexual/pansexual scale and the gender scale, ie are they male/female, transgender, gender queer, gender fluid etc.
I certainly have an aquaintance whom was born male, but believes himself to have both male and female personalities and is gay, but gay in each of his personalities so when he is a woman he is sexually attracted to other women and when he is a man is is attracted to other men. It's all very confusing! I just say live and let live. haha.
in a word NO
I've often wondered this before - whether all people are bi-curious and some people are just more aware or open minded towards it as a personal choice. I have always felt that I am bisexual so don't really know how it feels to know without a doubt that you are straight or gay but can anyone be 100% certain that they won't find someone of the same/opposite sex attractive one day?
I read a report a while ago which suggested that sexuality is fluid and fluxuates over time so that might explain why people become curious after years of considering themselves as straight.
Well, I have been attracted to women since before I knew what to do about it and I'm knocking on 60 now without the slightest curiosity about sex with a man. It's not going to happen now.
I definitely am. I've kissed a couple of girls before and I do want to try more but I'm more attracted to men than women.
I think it's a yes and no answer really. I know a lot of straight men that would deny being curious because they're worried they are 'gay'. Which ain't a thing to be worried about. I myself am straight, I don't really find men attractive, The only men I find slightly attractive are the pretty but awesome looking emo boys. But I'm still straight. However I am curious. I want to suck, I want to fuck.
Most people are just affraid to admit it to themselves. Let alone friends, family and partners.
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I'm not sure why it's apparently important for some to believe that we are all bi. If you are bi, you are happy with that and others are happy to accept you as such why do you have such a problem with accepting that others simply aren't?
I find the suggestion that those of us who claim to be straight are somehow in some kind of denial rather insulting. So lets extend your reasoning to a wider range of 'sexual orientations' and see where that gets us. Are you for example prepared to accept that, by the same reasoning, you must all be a bit bestiality-curious and a bit paedophilia-curious and a bit necrophilia-curious (is the latter in fact the origin of the term dead curious?) and that if you don't confess to all of these you are somehow repressed or in denial?
Billie_R wrote:
I agree. I have only ever had loving feelings for males, but I find lesbian porn very erotic, and know most women feel the same.
Womens bodies are just much nicer to look at than mens
I was going to go with "Penises are gross", but that works :)
Although I have full on snogged men (3am, southern comfort, prove you dont find men attractive, made sense at the time ......)
No interest in going anywhere though.
Gyrator53 wrote:
I'm not sure why it's apparently important for some to believe that we are all bi. If you are bi, you are happy with that and others are happy to accept you as such why do you have such a problem with accepting that others simply aren't?
I find the suggestion that those of us who claim to be straight are somehow in some kind of denial rather insulting. So lets extend your reasoning to a wider range of 'sexual orientations' and see where that gets us. Are you for example prepared to accept that, by the same reasoning, you must all be a bit bestiality-curious and a bit paedophilia-curious and a bit necrophilia-curious (is the latter in fact the origin of the term dead curious?) and that if you don't confess to all of these you are somehow repressed or in denial?
I agree totally, dont care about anyone elses orientation as long as they dont hit on me in a bar I just dont find men in any way attractive.
Me and my OH are both curius but have never done anything same sex, though I have to admit we would both love to
While i do find lesbian porn erotic that's as far as it goes for me.
Im straight i have no desire to have a sexual or emotional relationship with a woman nor is it something i fantasize about, I've always been attracted to men.
I'm Brian and so is my wife......
I know I am!
I'm not quite sure how this fits into the bi or not debate but whilst I am not attracted to men at all, i found no difficulty having sex with a 'fully-functioning' man simply dressed as a woman. It was a great combination. I take the view that we are on a continuum with most of us able to enjoy both in the right circumstances.
I'm well past the curious stage now 
Definitely curious! No plans to act on it anytime soon really, but curious nonetheless!
over the last few years, i have realised, and had to admit, that the thought of sexual acts with a guy, particularly with a woman directing me, really turns me! found myself watching porn but concentrating on the guys hard cock, particularly durign blow jobs and realising that the thought of doing that to a guy was turning me on incredible! so yes i am but came as a real surprise to me!