Are you comfortable in an adult shop?

Yes,she has done for both and for our anniversary too and i love it when she does this.I find it both romantic and sexy as a lot of thought goes into what she is buying for me.When we go away on holiday etc. she will always pack for me and i love every day and evening as she presents me with what she wants to see me wearing.The last two times away she has packed two days short meaning sometime during the trip it is a visit to a lingerie shop.She will also treat me then for being a forgetful wife though she will always take time choosing and it will once again be obvious who will be wearing the purchases due to size difference and also the way she holds the items against me whilst choosing.

Yes once I’m in there and don’t recognise anyone

@HappyInPanties - I do the same - I will often place on the bed lingerie I want him to wear after a shower - but I also when shopping place items against him and say that these will look good on you …

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@Himeros1
I am looking to visit Amsterdam in the next year or two - but never been there before - so we will look into the sex shops as I’m always looking for lingerie for him

I have had latex lingerie in the past but I found it horrible- the knickers looked terrible and it took hours to get a shine and then they were so uncomfortable to wear

As for gloves - I have quite a few in mesh / sheer nylon , satin and wet look - these look so good and use them when being a dominatrix to spank my husband- but he also loves satin gloves when it’s milking time …

Does it make a difference if one is solo or with a partner? Personally I find it easy to go in solo but far more interesting to share with a partner… usually less comfortable than I am.

@Himeros1 - next week in in London and I’m going to take my husband into the soho sex shops - I love to see his reaction when I touch and feel the large dildos

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I remember in the late 90’s maybe early 00’s the Hustler “megastore” opening in Birmingham city centre. It was huge and light and airy unlike the typical back street stores. But everything was overpriced and not exactly well made.
Much prefer Lovehoney for price and quality and guarantees.

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I used to regularly visit an adult/fetish shop in London. Once in the shop no problem…
The only slight issue was the daily street market right outside meaning lots of people around…
And the waiting to be let in because you had to ring the bell…

Having to wait to be let in, in a busy area, would certainly add a new twist to it. One of my local shops also runs a “ladies night” every Wednesday which seems like a good idea. Only females allowed in between 6 and 9 pm. It’s just unfortunate that there is a very popular strip club right next door. LOL

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No issue whatsoever so long as they aren’t dodgy dingy shops with dvds etc . I love a good adult shop on the high street and don’t care how long I’m in there for.

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Speaking of dogy dingy… who’s old enough to remember “peps shows” in the seedier shops?

Of course I’m comfortable in sex shops - in fact, I’m replying to this in one right now. If you see me come and say hello, I don’t bite … much. :smiley:

Im confortable as a Man, but I remember sending my GF into a sex shop to get some handcuffs lol. She absolutely freaked!! “No way am I going in there” she said. I asked why and she was so embarrassed going in as a Woman. We went in together in the end she was like a kid in a candy shop lol. ALAS we came out with r
those fluffy pink handcuffs, not my thing at all, but hey it was fun.

I am far too nervous to be going in the high street one.
This is why i can’t thank Lovehoney enough as they have saved me over the years and mean I don’t need to miss out

I am comfortable in adult shops and dont care who knows but one thing i find very uncomfortable is lingerie shopping as i feel judged when they look at the size and what lingerie i am buying so i am happier buying it online

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Wow! We are 60 replies deep so far. I thought this was silly topic thinking not much would come from it. I figured most remembered the 80’s or 90’s but it seems the same issues still apply in the 2020’s. You either own the shop or slink in behind your partner.

I think we’d be in the ‘own the shop’ cohort !

My o/h had been in a few times to the usual female-aimed shop, but about a year ago we braved it and went into a more specialised shop in a nearby town and the assistant was really good. It was just like looking at the things in any hobby shop, no embarrassment at all.

Further emboldened by this, more recently we went to a male themed shop in Soho which was quite full on. Exactly the same experience, good staff and not seedy at all, even though neither of us are gay (we are a hetro couple) and we bought some good bondage stuff.

However, must admit we prefer buying from LH as it is so easy online, the genuine reviews are very helpful too.

Doesn’t seem like a problem though

I find going into shops and having a browse quite liberating. The people shopping in there aren’t going to judge you and the retail workers there definitely won’t.

Its a much different experience getting to actually see and hold the items you’re thinking about buying, it’s arousing and exciting in itself.

The presence of sex shops is also quite a reflection on the local culture as well and if that local community is open and progressive

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