This is my worry, my husband will say, jeeze that must have been a good one, you were very loud and then im thinking shit, like how loud? 
I think im moderate when we are alone, silent when the children are around 
@CurvyCandy2 think it depends on how good the sex is sometimes my oh can be loud specially during oral
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I might be a bit naughty like that, i will admit ive crossed the finish line after hearing the neighbours chattering over a glass of wine out their back, my mind is like they are sitting there having a glass and im getting railed up here 
dont know if they hear but it certainly helps to imagine they do.
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@CurvyCandy2 yeah agree even more of turn on wen people can hear us for me I can b loud at times myself
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Yes the better the sex play is the loader i get, and i have like squeels and has got so loud a few times that both of us have put our hands over my mouth to try and muffle it as i cant stop midway, which we think is pretty funny.
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Yes, very, both of us!
Wasn’t always, mainly due to family being in the house - we’ve been together 16 years.
But over the years we learnt to let go, and it does make the orgasm more intense.
We both work from home now, and have to close the windows for daytime fun 
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New here. Hi.
My wife and I have been together for close to 3 decades and have spent most of that super, super quiet. It started out of necessity, as we had sex as teens in our family homes while everyone was present, but we had enough privacy. Then we lived in apartments for a while, and now we have a child. We haven’t gotten any louder, really, not even in the years where we owned a home and had no kid yet. But we’re getting more verbal than ever before, and she’s finally opened up to using sex toys, so I can only hope eventually it will lead to being louder, too. We did have a discussion about how quiet we are in the past, and she said she thought she could be louder, but probably felt pressure about it from the fact we had a conversation at all.
There have been times where I’ve heard a neighbour or someone in another hotel room going at it, and it never bothered me. It made me want to jump on my wife, though!
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I love being loud so it’s difficult to not be if someone is in the house. I love moaning when I get pleasure but also when I give it. It turns me on so I moan a lot when I give blowjobs as well. And I love me some dirty talk in-between all as well.
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I’m quiet when I masturbate, and when I’m on top in control I can be quiet but when my husband is in control and pounding me I get a bit loud, i don’t really notice at the time and then my throat hurts afterwards 
my husband is quiet which is rather he wasn’t, he will have a subtle moan or a “f**k” but I’d like him to be a bit more vocal.
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My wife is not verbal at all. I would find it a great turn on if she was though.
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OH is not loud but more vocal as she warms up being very descriptive the closer she is to orgasm. Dirty chat or teasing I suppose
Love it when the wife is noisy although with a 14 yr old kid in the house it’s hard these days.
We had a naughty night away the other weekend and it made her feel comfortable that the room was soundproof, I loved it as she was fucked that hard they must have heard her in the next county. Now I want a hotel date every weekend
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Good thought weekly date night where you can be as vocal as you want
Loved it, been together around 16 yrs and that was the best sex we have ever had. Must have fucked for around 5-6 hours.
I made a joke before we went that I was going to demolish her ( in a good way ) and I thought I was going to have to get her a wheelchair on the way out lol
I didn’t think so but my flatmate certainly says I am 
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I’m quite quiet when I orgasm, although I do talk a lot during sex.
My OH is definitely a screamer when she orgasms. The volume depends on the situation. When the youngest was a baby they would wake ate the slightest noise, so she would bite into a pillow. Now they are a heavy sleeper, my OH screams the house down. The louder she screams the more of a turn on it becomes, knowing that she is enjoying herself.
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Its good to make a noise @ellax it shows you are enjoying it.
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My OH’s uni housemates use to dread me coming. It wasn’t until a few years after she left did she tell me that they had a house meeting about the noise. In our defence we would only see each other once a fortnight.
Similar. The fortnightly visits did mean a noisy 48/72 hours for her flatmates.
Didn’t care then obviously, and would love to do it all again now!
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