I seen a thing on SM recently, someone was in their garden recording the sound of their neighbour having sex in order to report them, as its been warm, said neighbour leaves the windows open, person recording was tired of hearing them.
I don’t wish to debate whether this is appropriate or not but rather to ask, are many of you loud during sex? And do you think it heightens pleasure?
For myself, i wouldn’t be loud during as such but I know for a fact the louder I am closer to orgasm the better it is!
Its funny as i detest porn that has over the top screaming and yes! Yet when in the throws it pushes me right over the edge.
As my orgasms are strictly controlled and much less frequent than they used to be they are much more intense and there is no way that I can be quiet when the orgasm hits me.
My wife says that I can be quite loud sometimes, so it’s a good job we don’t have neighbours. We live on a farm and our nearest neighbour is around a mile away.
Although I have a major thing for being gagged so i guess it wouldn’t matter anyway. A nice mouth filling bit or ball gag is amazing at muffling your screams and gives you something to bite down on. Highly recommended if one of you is a screamer.
I’ve never heard my neighbours having sex and they’ve lived there for about 8 yrs maybe. I asked him if he thinks they hear us and he said, definitely. Oopsie
I don’t hold back, but I also don’t be loud on purpose.
Well, as we have 2 teenage sons who are at home a lot, we’ve kind of learnt to have quiet sex which does limit the enjoyment as we’re both conscious of not being heard.
Though when we manage to get the house to ourselves, or have a cheeky night away at a hotel, all inhibitions are discarded, and I know I can be particularly noisy at the point of orgasm, must be all that pent-up frustration!
There’s a joke in our home; when I cum, my neighbour’s neighbour’s neighbours know
Despite my work, I have the general presentation of a shy and demure “good girl” - I am the epitome of a “lady in the streets and a freak among the sheets” Im shamelessly vocal and I come out with some filth in the moment that could probably make a state trooper blush. My husband calls me a bad girl but he says he doesn’t want me to change
I know at least one of my neighbours hears me (I wonder if that’s why he’s so obsessed with me? ). The other neighbour is a young childless couple themselves who seem friendly enough, but who we aren’t friends with. They probably sit somewhere between wishing we’d stop and wanting to high-five hubby through the wall
We can be loud but we try not to intentionally bother our neighbours, they didn’t consent to hearing us after all.
We have gotten louder as we have gotten older and if we’re doing something a bit more public (play parties, etc) then we can be louder but in those spaces everyone is consenting adults.
My husband showed me a video he made and I realized that I make more noise than I thought when I come.
We live in our own house and have neighbors in other houses a few meters away, I don’t hear them when they’re in their houses and I sincerely hope they don’t hear us either, much less that they’re listening to us!
I’m terrified to read that there are people who go into other people’s gardens to listen, since I read this post I don’t even leave the holes in the blinds open to block out the noise even more
We can be a little noisy when we have our place to ourselves (kids to grandma’s, etc) or having a weekend away. Weekending can depend on whether we’re in a hotel or a rented space to ourselves, if it’s daytime or nighttime, etc.
I love it when we have the chance to fully let loose proper, though. Wife sounds like a across between exorcism and childbirth while I go more grunty, not unlike the lions getting busy on Animal Planet.
And then there’s the dirty talk - just so much easier to speak full voice and let it all out when you know there’s nobody around to hear.
We are for sure noisy. Both of us are very verbal with dirty talk, and when we hit the hot spots the moaning, groaning and screaming cums out. We have no neighbors to worry about.
Pretty much the same. We try to keep it quiet when we are not alone in the house and will sometimes put music on to cover what noise we do make. Having a teen means they are more independent these days and post COVID working from home gives us more alone time when we can be a bit more vocal and add some spanking but I don’t think we are ever outrageously load.
My wife like to be vocal for sure and I’m sure she’s louder if she thinks someone could be listening I on the other hand am mostly silent which she finds weird and unsettling
My OH is almost silent I am a bit louder! I remember back when I was twenty something the couple next door the girl used to cackle when they while he was pounding her