Ask the Expert: Bondage and Better Sex!

Userlh wrote:

Thanks, and one more question is it really necessary to have and use a douche especially if I never used any anal toys before?

Not at all. I love anal play and have never used a douche in my life. 

My personal recommendation is that no one needs to douche ever, but I know a lot of people like to douche to help them psychologically (and therefore physically) relax into the moment. 

Whether you douche or not is a completely personal decision, but I can 100% tell you that it's not necessary for anyone, whether you've never played anally, or do it all the time. 

If you decide you would like to douche before anal, make sure you don't do it too often as it can put mess with your healthy (and very much needed) intestinal bacteria.