When we - fairly unsuccessfully - tried anal the other night, he'd only got the head in and it hurt so we stopped. I ended up giving him a handjob (on period) but I did for a moment consider sucking him. Not in a contrived 'it's been in my bum wouldn't it be filthy to have it in my mouth now' kind of way, but just almost without thinking. As it was I just started touching him and did that until he came, but I realised that I potentially would suck him afterwards. However, in reality if I did I might find I didn't like it if it did taste of anything plus it would be covered in lube as well! I did suck him once after he'd had lube on - tbh I'd forgotten until he pointed it out but I just did it anyway. Plus we'd need to get the 'ass' thing happening before there could potentially be any 'mouth' action following it anyway! But although it doesn't turn me on at all, I'm not totally grossed out by it either. Probably because when we have tried it - only a couple of times, but the first time was more successful and he got halfway in - then he came out 'clean' so I guess that makes a difference. Obviously if there was anything there it would be a no-go!! Also, we've tried anal then because it wasn't happening fully we went back to PIV and I realised afterwards that probably wasn't the best move given possible infections and the like. I think in future I'd rather interrupt things and get him to wash it after it's been near my anus before it goes near my vagina so there's no risk invovled. Similarly, if he's fingered me anally I ask him to make sure he's not putting the same finger in my vagina later down the line. Sorry, slightly off the topic, but these things are all inter-related really aren't they!
Columbus wrote:
When we - fairly unsuccessfully - tried anal the other night, he'd only got the head in and it hurt so we stopped. I ended up giving him a handjob (on period) but I did for a moment consider sucking him. Not in a contrived 'it's been in my bum wouldn't it be filthy to have it in my mouth now' kind of way, but just almost without thinking. As it was I just started touching him and did that until he came, but I realised that I potentially would suck him afterwards. However, in reality if I did I might find I didn't like it if it did taste of anything plus it would be covered in lube as well! I did suck him once after he'd had lube on - tbh I'd forgotten until he pointed it out but I just did it anyway. Plus we'd need to get the 'ass' thing happening before there could potentially be any 'mouth' action following it anyway! But although it doesn't turn me on at all, I'm not totally grossed out by it either. Probably because when we have tried it - only a couple of times, but the first time was more successful and he got halfway in - then he came out 'clean' so I guess that makes a difference. Obviously if there was anything there it would be a no-go!! Also, we've tried anal then because it wasn't happening fully we went back to PIV and I realised afterwards that probably wasn't the best move given possible infections and the like. I think in future I'd rather interrupt things and get him to wash it after it's been near my anus before it goes near my vagina so there's no risk invovled. Similarly, if he's fingered me anally I ask him to make sure he's not putting the same finger in my vagina later down the line. Sorry, slightly off the topic, but these things are all inter-related really aren't they!
I agree. Things that have been in the ass don't go in the vagina afterwards.I'll run the risk of gastroenteritis but if I'm sure as hell not ending up with a chuff full of gunk LOL!
BLC x
I've had to re-think my stance on this one - on the basis that one of my new favourite things is him tonguing my ass - and I always give him a really passionate kiss after that, so really it's not too different!
Yeah, similar thing here LF, for the first time this weekend, the OH let me lick his ass, and we kissed after, so yeah, not so different is it when you really think about it?
I've done/do A2M without even thinking about it. Didn't even cross my mind it being a for or against thing until I read it on here! I don't find a problem with it, as long as your both as clean as can be expected. I've never tasted anything "nasty". And as Morbidia and LivingFire pointed out it's not that far from licking then kissing.
Never thought of it as a turn on either, just never thought about it at all! Lol
Not a chance for us, after anal play we go and wash up straight away - yes it can break the mood a little, but we both prefer it that way
Belles
Its sounds erotic, but i think you would need a clean first, an anal douche should do the trick, but while it looks dirty in movies, i can see its not everyones cup of tea. Its not something my OH would do, especially if you've used a lot of lube!
Ive done it a few times with my man and would do it again quite happily. Didnt taste disgusting at all just use a flavoured lube before penetration and it will still have the scent and flavour to suck afterwards. x
Just a reminder why your mother told you never to go ass to mouth.
High Risks of AtoM: Gonorrhea, Hepatitis A, Hepatitis B, Herpes, HPV, Syphilis
Moderate Risks of AtoM: HIV, Chlamydia, Hepatitis C
This applies to using a penis or a toy.
Going ass to mouth puts the person on the recieving end at great risk for contracting Hepatitis A, which can be treated but not cured. The penetrator is at no risk in this situation. Hepatitis A comes from getting fecal matter in the mouth.
Tigerlilies wrote:
Just a reminder why your mother told you never to go ass to mouth.
High Risks of AtoM: Gonorrhea, Hepatitis A, Hepatitis B, Herpes, HPV, Syphilis
Moderate Risks of AtoM: HIV, Chlamydia, Hepatitis C
This applies to using a penis or a toy.
Going ass to mouth puts the person on the recieving end at great risk for contracting Hepatitis A, which can be treated but not cured. The penetrator is at no risk in this situation. Hepatitis A comes from getting fecal matter in the mouth.
My mother told me nothing! I blame her then :D heehee
Hepatitis's (Hepatiti? Plual...?) I'm afraid isn't my Mastermind subject. Both of us having been tested and declared free from the usual STD nasties, but I'm not too sure how A, B and C are contracted in the first place? Does everybody have Hep A lurking in their poo, or do you have to contract it?
Help, you've scared me now! :(
BLC <3
Hi BumLovingCriminal, just to clarify, the Hepatitis Virus is can be present in the stool of a person who has already contracted Hepatitis A. Although contact with minute fecal matter from anyone puts you at risk of intestinal parisites and infection.
For a great A-Z of hepatitis check out the NHS website
http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/Hepatitis/Pages/Introduction.aspx
The BBC has good info too
http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/conditions/hepatitisa1.shtml
To quote the NHS
'Hepatitis A is usually caught by putting something in your mouth that has been contaminated with the stools (faeces) of someone with hepatitis A. '
Hepatitis B, caused by the hepatitis B virus, is present in body fluids such as blood, saliva, semen and vaginal fluid. It can be passed from person to person through unprotected sex or by sharing needles to inject
Hepatitis C, caused by the hepatitis C virus, is present in the blood and, to a much lesser extent, the saliva and semen or vaginal fluid of an infected person. It is particularly concentrated in the blood, so it is usually transmitted through blood-to-blood contact.
Ok, me and the Mister have none of the above, so I'm a bit less freaked out now. But still, ugh. Might save that one for verrrry special occasions then. A rare treat. I guess the more I do it, the more likely I am to get sick.
Hmmm, it has lost it's appeal a little!
Thanks for the info though, lovely!
BLC <3
No worries. There's no risk free sexual activities but this one can be pretty nasty so I've always kept it off the menu, hope you stay safe and have fun.
I can't help but logic that if you know you're free of such disease, then surely you're highly unlikely too fall ill from what is, your own waste? And at that, likely to be an incredibly minute amount?
LivingFire wrote:
I can't help but logic that if you know you're free of such disease, then surely you're highly unlikely too fall ill from what is, your own waste? And at that, likely to be an incredibly minute amount?
Naturally if you have been tested for the full range of nasties, not just the big ones, then the risk is reduced.
But the outcomes of fecal-oral contact only require the transmission of the microbes from the anal passage. Hence why dirty water and not washing our hands can make us ill. So going straight to the main source is ve
Fecal microbes can cause acute intestinal inflammations namely gastroenteritis and enterocolitis
Doctors agree it's impossible to wash away all the tiny eggs that transmit parasites. Porn stars take major enemas to clean their rectums but this is a good for looking clean rather than being clean.When it comes to rimming using plastic wrap or a dental dam with a little lube is advisable, then you can still feel the heat of contact. For ass to mouth, other than using a condom and then whipping it off before placing the penis into the mouth, there's no protection. The best route is a full and regular STD check up which requires a long established relationship of trust and communication.
Love Honey stock latex and non latex dams from Pasante
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/s.cfm?term=dams
The latex ones are flavoured.
Also remember that introducing the penis to vagina after anal sex is also very dangerous. The vaginal canal is not as quick or as sufficient at self cleaning in comparison to the anus which is designed in that way. Therefore bacteria hangs around in your love tunnel and is likey to give you an infection.
Also if you're into anal play it's a good idea to consider the material of your toys if you want to invite them along to the party.
Silicone, hard plastic, metal, glass and stone are easily cleaned and do not retain bacteria in the miniscule holes and pores of the toy's surface. Therefore once they are cleaned properly, they won't carry an infection risk. Silicone is ideal if you're venturing into serious areas because you can boil them for up to 5 mins and put them in the top rack of a dishwasher.
Sex boutiques recommend that you use a condom if you're using a jelly or softskin toy because they are more porous. Because of this they can retain bacteria no matter how many times you wash it. One you make a porous toy an anal toy don't use it any other areas and don't keep it knocking around for too long. After time, if the surface appears to be degrading, or if you encounter irritation, treat yourself to a brand new goodie from LH. If in doubt go silicone and cover the toy with a condom.
Tigerlilies wrote:
. So going straight to the main source is ve
WHOOPS deleted the end of the sentence. Sorry about that. Guess I don't have to rectify that going from an exit to an entrance can equal seriously bad joo joo.
Trust me I'm aware that anal to P-I-V sex is bad. With a capital B.
Well if you do try it make sure you have a good clean out as it could ruin the end to a good session if your not : S