Oh I love the idea of moisturise in the fridge! Thanks for the tip xx It is cuddles i crave the most, we obviously can only cuddle in private as publically being in a long term threesome is still somewhat taboo. We do have a private chat/message thread and post pics/vids too, which is also great for solo play if we are apart. When I'm top it is usually what I have been dening them which i give the most of- so if they have been teased but not touched it is cuddles, if freedom of movement/bondage encourage them to move around & often massage plays a part. Thanks for all the advice & tips so far, please do keep them coming xx