Beginner Pegging Help and Q/A on toys

Hello all, we are new to the site as well as exploring anal play (pegging). We quickly bought the Fuze Tango 'strapless dildo' thinking it would be ideal for both wearer and receiver pleasure. Awesome toy, however we both found it too large, leading to more discomfort than the fun we were hoping for! So we are in the search of a different option that is more forgiving on the sizes, mainly diameter. I do want some sort of stimulation while I peg, (the main reason we bought the Tango as it offered penetration and vibration for the wearer). in a perfect world, a smaller version of the Tango would be ideal. Saying all that, we are currently looking at; -Vixen nexus jr, does it need a harness? (if so, which one) is there a way to incorporate vibration? or - a harness with a bullet vibe pocket with either the Tantus silk medium dildo, or Fuze 10 Nova dildo Any help/guidance/reviews or input would be so great!

Hello

I've had experience both giving and recieving anal play.

Well done thinking about your OH feelings and pleasure however when I was a beginner, I went for a normal harness set up with a one ended dildo. It can still provide plenty of sensation for the wearer. The pad that holds the hilt of the toy via a o-ring is often on the pubic mould and some of LH harnesses fit lower and have a pouch to add a bullet, this bullet often can then be again the clitoris of a F-wearer while the vibrations of more powerful bullets can also spread down the toy. Additionally the visual effect is often stimlating enough for the wearer. And other toys could be used internally under the harness, and sometimes held in place by the straps or because the harness is shaped like a pantie. If your still set on double ended dildos, see if it is possible to get a harness. This may relieve some of the wearer size issues as I also felt like I , the wearer, had to "hold on" to a unsupported strapless double ended dildo and doing so would be sore, with a harness, it is no longer going to fall out/off if you relax which makes it easier to follow your bodies' natural rhythm Finally make sure your doing enough foreplay including anal foreplay, try fingerplay, plugs or anal beads before jumping to the final event <3

We use this vibrating strapless strap-on

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16276

along with a pair of harness briefs

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37885

and we both find this tcombination to be easy to use and a lot of fun.

If you are new to pegging might I suggest that, rather than the usual 'doggy' fashion penetration you try with the giver laying on their back and the taker sitting astride in the 'cowgirl' position. This allows the taker to control the angle, speed and depth of anal penetration.

Finally use plenty of lubrication. It is worth buying a couple of these syringes

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19842

They will help to get the lubrication exactly where it is needed.

I don't own any of the toys you mention, but this double strap-on is my/ our favourite by far: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14015 You can ready my review here:

Apart from that, I agree with PinkGrapefruit. This harness and dildo set is cuttenrly on sale, and you can use it with any other harness-compatible dildo or vibrator: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30701 Right now, it's sold at the same price as the harness alone: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=40110